Power dynamic when talking to girls in online dating

[biggoal]

Yes, I’m in NYC metro. Best place in the world for OLD.

That's what I mean. Most don't live in NYC or LA though so your experiences don't relate to most as you have different demographics you're working with.

 

[EyeBRollin]

That's what I mean. Most don't live in NYC or LA though so your experiences don't relate to most as you have different demographics you're working with.

Move to a major city. Online dating is best in locations with a large volume of single women. @biggoal move to Tampa.

 

[biggoal]

Move to a major city. Online dating is best in locations with a large volume of single women. @biggoal move to Tampa.

Way too much traffic and expensive to live there.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Way too much traffic and expensive to live there.

Ok. Good luck with the grannies and fatties!

 

[eli77]

Most hot girls don’t take guys seriously online, that’s where you’re going wrong. Your competition isnt the guys in her DMs; she thinks they’re losers. Your competition is the guys she is chasing & being feminine around in real life.

If a hot girl ever resorts to her phone for meeting a dude, she def isn’t looking for a dynamic where the guy has the power, she’d be looking for a beta male after many years of heartbreak with alphas.

You need to gain some courage and stop thinking you can attract hot prime women from your phone. It’s a wishful fantasy that just doesn’t happen, didn’t happen 20 years ago and doesn’t happen now.

Girls do not join Instagram thinking about meeting men, they join it to stalk/impress other girls

Where are you located do you think it varies?

 

[SmoothSmooth]

Where are you located do you think it varies?

One of the biggest cities in the West. I’ll leave it at that

 

[biggoal]

One of the biggest cities in the West. I’ll leave it at that

Why wail on us users that don't live in top 30 major cities?