"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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POV on "Good Sex"

jhonny9546

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We always talk about getting "good sex," but we never say more about it. It always end there. Just two words.

Since having good sex is different for many of us, and it also depend on the "context/scenario", what would you say in your experience is getting "good sex" from a "lover" and getting good sex from your "wife"?

We may want to share it from our POV (what we do, or what you consider to do), and from a woman's perspective (what she does, or what she considers to do).

This would be interesting since many here have LTR's, marriages, plates, etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BaronOfHair

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We always talk about getting "good sex," but we never say more about it. It always end there. Just two words.

Since having good sex is different for many of us, and it also depend on the "context/scenario", what would you say in your experience is getting "good sex" from a "lover" and getting good sex from your "wife"?

We may want to share it from our POV (what we do, or what you consider to do), and from a woman's perspective (what she does, or what she considers to do).

This would be interesting since many here have LTR's, marriages, plates, etc.
Try having some out in reality, with flesh and blood women, rather posting weird questions online. Then you will see
 
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