"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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POV on "Good Sex"

jhonny9546

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We always talk about getting "good sex," but we never say more about it. It always end there. Just two words.

Since having good sex is different for many of us, and it also depend on the "context/scenario", what would you say in your experience is getting "good sex" from a "lover" and getting good sex from your "wife"?

We may want to share it from our POV (what we do, or what you consider to do), and from a woman's perspective (what she does, or what she considers to do).

This would be interesting since many here have LTR's, marriages, plates, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

BaronOfHair

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We always talk about getting "good sex," but we never say more about it. It always end there. Just two words.

Since having good sex is different for many of us, and it also depend on the "context/scenario", what would you say in your experience is getting "good sex" from a "lover" and getting good sex from your "wife"?

We may want to share it from our POV (what we do, or what you consider to do), and from a woman's perspective (what she does, or what she considers to do).

This would be interesting since many here have LTR's, marriages, plates, etc.
Try having some out in reality, with flesh and blood women, rather posting weird questions online. Then you will see
 
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