"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lol ok Lookyoung, who do you think is better than this guy? Mystery? Okay bro.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You are better than mystery at WoW, that I have no doubts about, playa :)
 

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You are better than mystery at WoW, that I have no doubts about, playa :)
 

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The thing that always puzzled me was, if the gurus are as good as they claim and of course want more customers etc. then why aren't there loads of vids of them doing live cold pick ups that haven't been set up? I mean there's like 2 of Mystery which are still debatable regarding how it panned out, and nothing from Strauss, TD and all. I mean nothing would rake in the sales more than some decent vids of cold pickups from these guys. It suggests somethings up if there's nothing to view. In saying that, it doesn't mean what they preach is wrong or not helpful, quite the contrary. But they have different styles that seem to fit their personality and/or belief system which may not fit ours. For example I would never bother with a 'being the party' type like TD advocates, but something more crafty and skilled like Mystery's stuff, perhaps. Horses for courses.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mad Manic said:
The thing that always puzzled me was, if the gurus are as good as they claim and of course want more customers etc. then why aren't there loads of vids of them doing live cold pick ups that haven't been set up? I mean there's like 2 of Mystery which are still debatable regarding how it panned out, and nothing from Strauss, TD and all. I mean nothing would rake in the sales more than some decent vids of cold pickups from these guys. It suggests somethings up if there's nothing to view. In saying that, it doesn't mean what they preach is wrong or not helpful, quite the contrary. But they have different styles that seem to fit their personality and/or belief system which may not fit ours. For example I would never bother with a 'being the party' type like TD advocates, but something more crafty and skilled like Mystery's stuff, perhaps. Horses for courses.

MM
That's a fair point MM. However, I've watched 4 1/2 of Johnny Soporno's seminar tapes, and if nothing else, they've made me seriously think about the things I do/did believe. I personally imagine Johnny will be pretty successful with women. Still, even if he's not, the inner game stuff he preaches is rock solid, in my opinion... and the actual seduction side is pretty sound as well!

Have you watched any of the tapes yet? If not, just have a look at the first one (at least) when you have an hour or so spare. When you have, come back and tell us if you got anything at all out of it. I'll be very surprised if you don't.

EDIT: Actually, I didn't really read your post properly at all! It seems like a general rant, rather than you having a go at Johnny Soporno. Still, you seem like a studious type (you wouldn't be on this site, otherwise!), so have a look.
 

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Inner before the outer. My own perspective, the first one I watched was when he was talking about slVts, Wh0res, and yeah I was a little shocked by it but watched. Then I went back and watched the previous ones where you could just see him talking about life philosophy and that is the way to go, even the stuff that doesn't deal with women, that is a guy who knows what he believes and comes off as genuine.

I'm not sure what to make of all this after growing up in the matrix. I THOUGHT I wanted a girlfriend, because that's what you "do" and that I just wanted to get it out of the way and not be alone. The "player" stuff never appealed to me really because I saw it as just taking advantage of women, but when you step back and look at the bigger picture, at the very least, you owe it to yourself to think about your OWN beliefs, whatever they may be, and seriously consider WHY you belive what you believe and WHY you have the opinions you do. Do they come from YOU? Or are you just a walking robot who wants things that "everyone else wants" for the reasons "everyone else has"?

I have a friend who doesn't date, and he had one date and told me she wasn't really what he was looking for and he was ready to settle down and get married. He's my age.

WHY?????
 

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Man, why do you even bother trying to explain just how much one would get by watching this free seminar on the computer?

I swear, some here just need to create drama and look for things to critizise as soon as they get a chance. Most folks waste hours looking through this site for quality stuff that they never find. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO WATCH, DON'T. JUST SHUT YOUR FVCKEN PIE HOLE! Let the rest of us make our decision.

Would you not seek great advice just because you didn't like the way somebody looked? Would you object a top heart surgeon operating your relative who needs quadruple bypass just because the doctor is a smoker, yet he is one of the best? Do you need to do drugs to know that drugs are bad for you?
 

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reset said:
Inner before the outer. My own perspective, the first one I watched was when he was talking about slVts, Wh0res, and yeah I was a little shocked by it but watched. Then I went back and watched the previous ones where you could just see him talking about life philosophy and that is the way to go, even the stuff that doesn't deal with women, that is a guy who knows what he believes and comes off as genuine.

I'm not sure what to make of all this after growing up in the matrix. I THOUGHT I wanted a girlfriend, because that's what you "do" and that I just wanted to get it out of the way and not be alone. The "player" stuff never appealed to me really because I saw it as just taking advantage of women, but when you step back and look at the bigger picture, at the very least, you owe it to yourself to think about your OWN beliefs, whatever they may be, and seriously consider WHY you belive what you believe and WHY you have the opinions you do. Do they come from YOU? Or are you just a walking robot who wants things that "everyone else wants" for the reasons "everyone else has"?

I have a friend who doesn't date, and he had one date and told me she wasn't really what he was looking for and he was ready to settle down and get married. He's my age.

WHY?????
Good post. The first paragraph sums up what I was trying to say in a far more succinct way than I managed.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Man, why do you even bother trying to explain just how much one would get by watching this free seminar on the computer?

I swear, some here just need to create drama and look for things to critizise as soon as they get a chance. Most folks waste hours looking through this site for quality stuff that they never find. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO WATCH, DON'T. JUST SHUT YOUR FVCKEN PIE HOLE! Let the rest of us make our decision.

Would you not seek great advice just because you didn't like the way somebody looked? Would you object a top heart surgeon operating your relative who needs quadruple bypass just because the doctor is a smoker, yet he is one of the best? Do you need to do drugs to know that drugs are bad for you?
I can't work out, are you having a go at me? I just explained how much you'd get out of them because ppl wouldn't watch if I just posted 6 hour long videos without explanation!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SAFC said:
That's a fair point MM. However, I've watched 4 1/2 of Johnny Soporno's seminar tapes, and if nothing else, they've made me seriously think about the things I do/did believe. I personally imagine Johnny will be pretty successful with women. Still, even if he's not, the inner game stuff he preaches is rock solid, in my opinion... and the actual seduction side is pretty sound as well!

Have you watched any of the tapes yet? If not, just have a look at the first one (at least) when you have an hour or so spare. When you have, come back and tell us if you got anything at all out of it. I'll be very surprised if you don't.

EDIT: Actually, I didn't really read your post properly at all! It seems like a general rant, rather than you having a go at Johnny Soporno. Still, you seem like a studious type (you wouldn't be on this site, otherwise!), so have a look.
I've watched some of it before and yes he preaches some good stuff, but end of the day when you're 1 on 1 with a pretty girl stuff like that goes out of the window. It's also very hard to genuinely change mindsets over the net because if you believe x, y, z then it's very hard to alter it just through someone else's opinion, which Johnny's essentially is. I mean I could post vids saying women suck so just become bodybuilders and they'll want to fvck you, which is probably sound advice infact.

MM
 

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I've watched some of it before and yes he preaches some good stuff, but end of the day when you're 1 on 1 with a pretty girl stuff like that goes out of the window.
Not really....just keep your composure.

And whats with all this bodybuilding crap? If you have zero game and a bodybuilder's body, you still won't get laid much....its a strange thing to be saying.
 
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Its hard as it being better than mystery, now every used cars salesman wants to take my potential students...its hard being a pick prodigy lol...like me haha:yawn:
 

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Not really....just keep your composure.

And whats with all this bodybuilding crap? If you have zero game and a bodybuilder's body, you still won't get laid much....its a strange thing to be saying.
I meant the deeper stuff not kino tips, tips on conversation, making a move etc.

And never put crap and bodybuilding in the same sentence.

MM
 

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I can't work out, are you having a go at me? I just explained how much you'd get out of them because ppl wouldn't watch if I just posted 6 hour long videos without explanation!!
No. I am defending your stance here. I am having a go at anyone who comes here, to this thread, just to complain about something free that was recomended by somebody who already took the time to view it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Thanks for the props! :)

Thanks for the respect and the appreciation fellas :)

I'm delighted that so many of you have taken the initiative and time to view my seminar vids - hearing back from you makes it all the more worthwhile for me!

I can be reached via email or MSN IM at [email protected], since I don't have much time to pop into this particular forum too frequently these days :)

For those who've not heard of me, or don't know anything about me, or just plain suspect I must be full-of-sh!t, please visit www.JohnnySoporno.com and follow the links you find there :)

Read what Neil 'Style' Strauss published about me :)

Johnny Soporno
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http://www.Flickr.com/photos/wpi
 

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Hey Johnny, thanks for the videos, very informative :)
I read that you are a martial artist? For how many years did you study martial arts, and which one.

P.S. The whole presentation was very good I thought with a minor thing that could've been avoided. The girl that u told to bring u the coke, and u kissed her... I can understand that was your non-verbal way of saying "shut the fvck up" to some of the guys asking redundant/dumb questions; but it just looked out of place a little bit, with bad timing... basically something unnecessary.
 

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DJVladdy said:
Hey Johnny, thanks for the videos, very informative :)
I read that you are a martial artist? For how many years did you study martial arts, and which one.

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haha thats what I thought first time I read it. It actually says "marital arts", as in, sexual techniques. :D
 

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I listened to them as mp3s in my car. The audio could have been a lot better. Sounded like the mic was hidden in some guy's pocket a the back of room. If you went through the videos and toned down the audio every time there was lots of laughter that would've been nice. :)
 

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magnet7 said:
SCAM ALERT!

This site is such a scam!!!

Go to Services on the top. Then scroll to the 2nd picture!!

Look familiar???

screenshot from site:
http://img520.imageshack.us/img520/3338/johnchodf2.gif

John Cho pictures:
http://www.trekkies.cz/storage/obrazky/53/200710120850_john_cho.jpg
http://i.imdb.com/Photos/Events/6523/John_Jean_14862954_400.jpg
http://www.sinaimg.cn/ent/m/p/2007-10-09/U1343P28T3D1743125F326DT20071009181159.jpg
http://i.imdb.com/Photos/Events/4740/JohnCho_Kambo_8639431_400.jpg
http://apath.berkeley.edu/gallery/a...l-API-Issues-Conference/Jonathan_John_Cho.jpg

That's friggin Harold from Harold and Kumar! It's John Cho!!...what a fake, trying to pass him off as a geek, he's a millionaire celebrity!! LOL

Yeah, asians look similar but that guy has a really obvious face. That's clearly John Cho, and they were trying to pass him off as some geeky asian without mentioning his real identity.

I only caught that one in about 30 seconds of being on the site, not sure if there's more celebrities on there, but hey, good luck to you morons for believing in this ****.

edit - by the way, just noticed the guy pushing this site is on sosuave, so if he changes that picture of John Cho, just refer to the screenshot I showed. He's not legit at all, and I think people here shouldn't be misled to buy his ****. Plus he uses the last name 'soprano' as a way to gain rep online because people know the name and assume he might be related to the show, etc. some how. It's a marketing tactic, but anyone with half a brain can see right through it.
I think Johnny is pretty well-known for throwing big parties with celebs and porn stars and other ppl like that in attendance. If you watch the seminar videos there was a lot of guys in attendance...they obviously could have used any one of their pictures on the site, so why would they get another guy in who was, as you call it, "fake"?

Plus, this site and videos would benefit millionaires as well!! It's really not just about picking up chicks ya know....don't be so ignorant.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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