"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Potentially genious PU strategy for 3 ways/general PU

Mistic

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1st method - You go into a night club, walk up to a girl you are interested in and say, "My lady friend has a growing curiosity to share an experience with me and another woman. You caught her eye, and she asked me to see if you were possibly open to that."

If she is interested, tell her you will get back to her in a little while and introduce her to your "Lady friend." Now go up to the next hottest girl you are interested in, pitching the same story, but now gesturing over to the first girl, who is your supposed "Lady Friend". The truth is she actually is now your friend, and because you didn't call her your gf, or partner, you dont have to lie.

Now just bring one over to the other and introduce them.

2nd method - Walk up to a girl and say, "If you are interested, point out any woman in this place that you would be interested in bringing home with us, and i'll see if she's into it. Unless of course you'd rather be the one to do it."

if she's not into it, you can laugh it off as a joke, and you've at least opened her in a ballsy, honest way.

Haven't tested it. Thoughts? Contributions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Capodeciña said:
Alpha Romeo, is that you?
I dont know who that is. I dont waste enough time on this site to memorize names. I just want to know if anyone would bother trying something like this. It's sort of a weird twist on the APOC opener, that could work. It always depends on who is doing tho in the end. I'll try it some time and post if I have success.
 
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