"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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familyguyfan

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Man, having sex back in the day must have been so much easier and less worrisome, because they didn't have to worry about STDs. Sure, they had them, but they were far less common and weren't something most people had to worry about.

I have such a hard time telling if a girl is okay to hook up with. I just recently passed up an opportunity (well, it's still there, but I don't think I'm going to do anything about it) to get with a very hot girl that is a slut. I know she's hooked up with a lot of guys and just a week ago she hooked up with my friend that's been with a lot of girls. It frustrates me because it seems like every girl I get close with has been with a fair amount of people. What also sucks is meeting a random girl at a party and having no idea what her history is.

Do you guys think I'm overreacting? Although I know there's defniitely STDs prevalent in high school, I don't think they're quite as common as in college and beyond. So, are there any rules you guys live by when hooking up with girls so as to reduce your chances? Any other comments and tips are welcome.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Joe The Homophobe

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Do you guys think I'm overreacting? Although I know there's defniitely STDs prevalent in high school, I don't think they're quite as common as in college and beyond. So, are there any rules you guys live by when hooking up with girls so as to reduce your chances? Any other comments and tips are welcome.
where did you hear this? if std's are more common in high school than college now that would be a surprise! I seriously doubt that.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Do you guys think I'm overreacting? Although I know there's defniitely STDs prevalent in high school, I don't think they're quite as common as in college and beyond. So, are there any rules you guys live by when hooking up with girls so as to reduce your chances? Any other comments and tips are welcome.
Ummm sooo:

There is more STDs in highschool than college?

If you have STDs in highschool... and you graduate and go to college, you lose the STD *just like that*?



But yeah, I agree with the STDs part though... about being cautious.
 

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Just use protection... Any that won't be stopped by that, and are transmited by skin contact, would probably be pretty obvious visually.
 

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Stop hooking up with total sluts. lol.

But I guess you can't really tell, but the fun stops with the STD. lol

Klamidea kills!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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familyguyfan

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Re: Re: Potentially Dirty Girls

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
where did you hear this? if std's are more common in high school than college now that would be a surprise! I seriously doubt that.
Ummm sooo:

There is more STDs in highschool than college?

If you have STDs in highschool... and you graduate and go to college, you lose the STD *just like that*?

How the hell did both of you get the idea I said that? I said that STDs are more prevalent in college than in high school, but they still exist in high school. I didn't think I worded it weird at all.
 

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Back in the day there were STD's around. Mainly Gonorrhea and Syphillis. But, yeah, watch out for slut women. If you see the woman with a different guy every day, chances are, she's a slut. In highschool there are alot of rumors about women that sleep with everybody...so just take note. Always wear a rubber. They are not 100% safe...but they are safe enough to trust.
 

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Condoms if used properly are almost foolproof, but can break. If they do get checked out ASAP. Don't worry so much.

Fvck as many girls as you can in highschool, you lose your highschool reputation upon graduation, so be a player. You'll regret it in later life if you don't. After all, the older they get, the more STDs they get, and they also get fatter and married and other crap.
 

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It's not that there were less STDs back in the day, people just cared a lot less.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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