"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Man, having sex back in the day must have been so much easier and less worrisome, because they didn't have to worry about STDs. Sure, they had them, but they were far less common and weren't something most people had to worry about.

I have such a hard time telling if a girl is okay to hook up with. I just recently passed up an opportunity (well, it's still there, but I don't think I'm going to do anything about it) to get with a very hot girl that is a slut. I know she's hooked up with a lot of guys and just a week ago she hooked up with my friend that's been with a lot of girls. It frustrates me because it seems like every girl I get close with has been with a fair amount of people. What also sucks is meeting a random girl at a party and having no idea what her history is.

Do you guys think I'm overreacting? Although I know there's defniitely STDs prevalent in high school, I don't think they're quite as common as in college and beyond. So, are there any rules you guys live by when hooking up with girls so as to reduce your chances? Any other comments and tips are welcome.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Do you guys think I'm overreacting? Although I know there's defniitely STDs prevalent in high school, I don't think they're quite as common as in college and beyond. So, are there any rules you guys live by when hooking up with girls so as to reduce your chances? Any other comments and tips are welcome.
where did you hear this? if std's are more common in high school than college now that would be a surprise! I seriously doubt that.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Do you guys think I'm overreacting? Although I know there's defniitely STDs prevalent in high school, I don't think they're quite as common as in college and beyond. So, are there any rules you guys live by when hooking up with girls so as to reduce your chances? Any other comments and tips are welcome.
Ummm sooo:

There is more STDs in highschool than college?

If you have STDs in highschool... and you graduate and go to college, you lose the STD *just like that*?



But yeah, I agree with the STDs part though... about being cautious.
 

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Just use protection... Any that won't be stopped by that, and are transmited by skin contact, would probably be pretty obvious visually.
 

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Stop hooking up with total sluts. lol.

But I guess you can't really tell, but the fun stops with the STD. lol

Klamidea kills!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: Re: Potentially Dirty Girls

Originally posted by Joe The Homophobe
where did you hear this? if std's are more common in high school than college now that would be a surprise! I seriously doubt that.
Ummm sooo:

There is more STDs in highschool than college?

If you have STDs in highschool... and you graduate and go to college, you lose the STD *just like that*?

How the hell did both of you get the idea I said that? I said that STDs are more prevalent in college than in high school, but they still exist in high school. I didn't think I worded it weird at all.
 

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Back in the day there were STD's around. Mainly Gonorrhea and Syphillis. But, yeah, watch out for slut women. If you see the woman with a different guy every day, chances are, she's a slut. In highschool there are alot of rumors about women that sleep with everybody...so just take note. Always wear a rubber. They are not 100% safe...but they are safe enough to trust.
 

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Condoms if used properly are almost foolproof, but can break. If they do get checked out ASAP. Don't worry so much.

Fvck as many girls as you can in highschool, you lose your highschool reputation upon graduation, so be a player. You'll regret it in later life if you don't. After all, the older they get, the more STDs they get, and they also get fatter and married and other crap.
 

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It's not that there were less STDs back in the day, people just cared a lot less.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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