Potential sh*t test?

[Nn877]

How would you guys handle this?

Scenario: me and gf work very close to a mall and she lives outta of town as well as I do. I'm working today and she texted me her purse got shipped to the store and if I could please pick it up. (I'm seeing her tmw) she doesn't work until Tuesday.

So I was kinda put off by the request, I'm not a delivery boy esp it being a purse on top. Am I overreacting and should just grab it for her or tell her no? I don't want her to thing I can start doing all these favors or requests for her. I just look at it like would an alpha male pick up his gf purse seems kinda afc to me. I know she's prob gonna be upset I say no and might affect tmw or not. Thoughts? Thanks

 

[SgtSplacker]

Dude if you don't feel like doing it then tell her that. Who cares if she gets pissed, you're a man and do what you want it'll probably turn her on deep inside. With that being said if she is nice to you I may repay the previous favors and do it for her. Doesn't sound like too big a deal.

 

[TheException]

Lol.....just pick it up pal. Sounds like you overdosed on the "red pill". Alpha males still do favors.

 

[El Payaso]

What do you want to do? We can't tell you what to do and she can't either. If you don't feel like doing it, tell her you're not doing it. Simple.

 

[Nn877]

Lol def overdosed on red pill.....well I just don't want to start becoming some favor giving in a habit as in maintaining frame. She did send me a pic of a Victoria secret bag saying she's ready for tmw night. I guess a favor would be okay.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

This is called "over-analyzing a task." If you're working at the store and can pick it up, what's the issue? Unless you're also not working or going by the store for the next few days, pick up the dang purse. All this "Alpha/Beta" talk has everyone all panicked about making the "wrong" move that will make them look "weak," but the fact that you're worrying about it in the first place would technically still put you in the "beta" category.

 

[Nn877]

Good point Harry thanks

 

[Trump]

How would you guys handle this?

Scenario: me and gf work very close to a mall and she lives outta of town as well as I do. I'm working today and she texted me her purse got shipped to the store and if I could please pick it up. (I'm seeing her tmw) she doesn't work until Tuesday.

So I was kinda put off by the request, I'm not a delivery boy esp it being a purse on top. Am I overreacting and should just grab it for her or tell her no?

You should tell her "What would I get out of it?"