"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How would you guys handle this?

Scenario: me and gf work very close to a mall and she lives outta of town as well as I do. I'm working today and she texted me her purse got shipped to the store and if I could please pick it up. (I'm seeing her tmw) she doesn't work until Tuesday.

So I was kinda put off by the request, I'm not a delivery boy esp it being a purse on top. Am I overreacting and should just grab it for her or tell her no? I don't want her to thing I can start doing all these favors or requests for her. I just look at it like would an alpha male pick up his gf purse seems kinda afc to me. I know she's prob gonna be upset I say no and might affect tmw or not. Thoughts? Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude if you don't feel like doing it then tell her that. Who cares if she gets pissed, you're a man and do what you want it'll probably turn her on deep inside. With that being said if she is nice to you I may repay the previous favors and do it for her. Doesn't sound like too big a deal.
 
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Lol.....just pick it up pal. Sounds like you overdosed on the "red pill". Alpha males still do favors.
 
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What do you want to do? We can't tell you what to do and she can't either. If you don't feel like doing it, tell her you're not doing it. Simple.
 
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Lol def overdosed on red pill.....well I just don't want to start becoming some favor giving in a habit as in maintaining frame. She did send me a pic of a Victoria secret bag saying she's ready for tmw night. I guess a favor would be okay.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is called "over-analyzing a task." If you're working at the store and can pick it up, what's the issue? Unless you're also not working or going by the store for the next few days, pick up the dang purse. All this "Alpha/Beta" talk has everyone all panicked about making the "wrong" move that will make them look "weak," but the fact that you're worrying about it in the first place would technically still put you in the "beta" category.
 
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Nn877 said:
How would you guys handle this?

Scenario: me and gf work very close to a mall and she lives outta of town as well as I do. I'm working today and she texted me her purse got shipped to the store and if I could please pick it up. (I'm seeing her tmw) she doesn't work until Tuesday.

So I was kinda put off by the request, I'm not a delivery boy esp it being a purse on top. Am I overreacting and should just grab it for her or tell her no?
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You should tell her "What would I get out of it?"
 
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