Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Potential Blockers

LADawg49

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Aight, had the date with girl on Friday, take her for lunch and ice cream. We ended up doin sum deep kissing for a lil bit and then took her home and ended with a hug and kiss. Aight, so my intentions is to wait till Wednesday to call her. However, she hasn't called me yet or emailed me since then, is that a bad sign or somethin? Usually when a girl starts kissin a guy, i thought she starts gettin kinda attached to him.
In addition when i call her wednesday, what should I say if her sister or her sister's boyfriend picks up? They could be potential blockers and leaving a message with them, might ruin my chances.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thefonz

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even if a girl really likes you......some just wait for you to do ALL the work. Its sucks but its part of bein a man.

Some dj's will tell you to say something really witty or spontaneous if the sister or brother answers but I would just ask when she will be home and call again later. No point in risking a desperate attempt for approval from the family. If shes not home when they say just leave a message. This is where she has to do something. If she doesn't respond back just next her until she gets off her cute lil ass and calls you.
 

sexualchocolate

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Im not a firm believer in waiting a week to call a chick. She may be thinking you nexted her already or god only knows what the heck they think.

waiting a week to call should only be after a number close, not a first date.

get into text messaging girls with your cell phone. That way you can get your point across without speaking so much over the phone.
 

Wiesman44

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Waiting til Wednesday is too long. Call her on Monday. If it was a good date, she wants to hear from you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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