"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LADawg49

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Aight, had the date with girl on Friday, take her for lunch and ice cream. We ended up doin sum deep kissing for a lil bit and then took her home and ended with a hug and kiss. Aight, so my intentions is to wait till Wednesday to call her. However, she hasn't called me yet or emailed me since then, is that a bad sign or somethin? Usually when a girl starts kissin a guy, i thought she starts gettin kinda attached to him.
In addition when i call her wednesday, what should I say if her sister or her sister's boyfriend picks up? They could be potential blockers and leaving a message with them, might ruin my chances.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thefonz

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even if a girl really likes you......some just wait for you to do ALL the work. Its sucks but its part of bein a man.

Some dj's will tell you to say something really witty or spontaneous if the sister or brother answers but I would just ask when she will be home and call again later. No point in risking a desperate attempt for approval from the family. If shes not home when they say just leave a message. This is where she has to do something. If she doesn't respond back just next her until she gets off her cute lil ass and calls you.
 
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Im not a firm believer in waiting a week to call a chick. She may be thinking you nexted her already or god only knows what the heck they think.

waiting a week to call should only be after a number close, not a first date.

get into text messaging girls with your cell phone. That way you can get your point across without speaking so much over the phone.
 
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Waiting til Wednesday is too long. Call her on Monday. If it was a good date, she wants to hear from you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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