"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey Guys


So i live in a small Canadian town population of about 7000 and there is that new European women in town ( been here for about 6 month now)
She has become friend with one of my buddy sisters that works in a salon.
So my buddy met her and while she was complaining about a guy not calling her after she gave him her number, he told her he knew a recently single guy.
He then showed her my FB profile and told here she should meet me.

So im recently single not in a rush to get back to it, but damm from what my friend told me and what ive seen on her fb page she is close to a 10.


So you guys think i should meet her?
What is stopping me is the complaining about some guy not calling her seems like she would only be looking for attention/orbiters
If this is the case id rather not bother right now


Also she is 30 prob too old for me right?
lmao
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what ive seen on her fb page she is close to a 10.

So you guys think i should meet her?

Also she is 30 prob too old for me right?
lmao
What’s stopping you from meeting a 9-10? I would go for it.

A 10 with 30 year old poon would be good for me. I would hit it if I were you. Might learn some new tricks doing so. Age is only a number unless it gets close to cougar age range…
 
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I was just kidding about the age i dont like women that are much younger than me, most of the time they just cant maintain an interesting conversation.

Whats stopping me is her complaining about a guy not calling her, seems like a red flag to me.
But again id prob need to meet her to judge
 

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I was just kidding about the age i dont like women that are much younger than me, most of the time they just cant maintain an interesting conversation.

Whats stopping me is her complaining about a guy not calling her, seems like a red flag to me.
But again id prob need to meet her to judge
It’s not a red flag. To her it’s a personal rejection that she wasn’t happy about, that’s all it is.
Meet her, raise her hopes and desire to the same levels as the guy that didn’t call and you’re good to go.
 
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What is stopping me is the complaining about some guy not calling her seems like she would only be looking for attention/orbiters
If this is the case id rather not bother right now
that's a rather bizarre leap in logic lol, maybe she just liked that guy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hey Guys


So i live in a small Canadian town population of about 7000 and there is that new European women in town ( been here for about 6 month now)
She has become friend with one of my buddy sisters that works in a salon.
So my buddy met her and while she was complaining about a guy not calling her after she gave him her number, he told her he knew a recently single guy.
He then showed her my FB profile and told here she should meet me.

So im recently single not in a rush to get back to it, but damm from what my friend told me and what ive seen on her fb page she is close to a 10.


So you guys think i should meet her?
What is stopping me is the complaining about some guy not calling her seems like she would only be looking for attention/orbiters
If this is the case id rather not bother right now


Also she is 30 prob too old for me right?
lmao
Far from top form SMV.

30, complaining about men not calling her. Likely, got chucked. Likely has baby fever.

Wtf is wrong with the forum and men pursuing cratered SMV?

Look, if you got no options, your d won't suck itself. But some srlf respect. Please.

The only thing worse than wall women are single mom's.

Truth be told, a hawtttt European woman not locked down.. WHY?

My suspicion, mental health, bpd, skiing down cawkkkkk mountain, etc.

#nextSet


I won't moralize but dragging a granny around with zero interest of anything long term is savage.


I sport smash but, top form SMV 18-23 will move quicker to settling down after me. Not before lol
 

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I was just kidding about the age i dont like women that are much younger than me, most of the time they just cant maintain an interesting conversation.

Whats stopping me is her complaining about a guy not calling her, seems like a red flag to me.
But again id prob need to meet her to judge
Yeah, I mean nothing attractive about perky rocking bod and tits on a chick at the peak of her SMV. Gross. Who would want that when you can have a woman at 30 with like 3eggs left.

Wait wut ?
 

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What is stopping me is the complaining about some guy not calling her seems like she would only be looking for attention/orbiters
Well, she was probably interested in that guy. It does kinda suck to hit a dead end when you'd like it to progress, she's just venting a bit of frustration. Don't be so quick to judge.

Go meet her, find out how she really is, that's the point of meeting up... Won't do any harm. If you don't like her in person then just stop contacting her. It's not like you go out with her you're stuck with her, you can withdraw at any point if you find out she's not for you.
 
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