"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Potbelly's 2006 Summer Transformation Thread

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ok ladies and gentlemen, I am going to post my progress and stuff here.

Current Stats:
Height: 5'10"
Weight: 165 lbs
%BF: 21%

Goals by September 1, 2006:
Weight: 165-170 lbs
%BF: 10-12%

Friday
- DB Curl
- Bent DB Row
- Lat Pulldown
- Deadlift

Sunday
- Flat DB Bench Press
- Incline DB Press
- Overhead extensions
- Decline weighted crunches
- Decline leg raises

Wednesday
- DB Shoulder Press
- Hamstring Curl
- Calf Raise
- DB Squats

I will mass myself every weekend Sunday morning before eating.
I will get my % body fat every 2 weeks on Sunday as well.

For cardio I will do swimming, tennis, jump rope, running, and biking. I do those interchangably, but I get some in everyday, but more on days I do not lift. So that's about it. Wish me luck guys.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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well that KKKKKK ***** almost pushed my thread to another page, but I got it :)

3 hrs of tennis today. I feel refreshed after doing some sports because I was sick the past week and didn't work out or anything. ahhhh life is good
 

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Bent DB Row
10x35 9x35
9x35 10x35
9x35 10x35

DB Curl
13x20 13x20
10x20 10x20
7x20 8x20

DB Deadlift
9x70
9x70
8x70

Also did 2 hours of intense tennis. whew
 

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nono. that's not 6 sets. It's 3 sets. The left column is for my left arm, and the right column is for my right arm. :)

if that's still too many sets please let me know :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You should try keeping the sets at the exact same number of reps to prevent one side of your body becoming stronger/larger than the other side. That may end up causing you problems.


Also, drop the Dumbell deadlifts and do regular barbell dead lifts. You'll be able to use more weight, and if you're not worried about developing the grip during your deadlifts, then you can use the staggered grip, allowing you to hoist EVEN MORE weight.

Big Weights + Proper Form + Proper Diet + Proper Rest = Big MotherF*cker.
 

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I do not have access to a barbell deadlift. I am doing these at home and I only have dumbbells and one of those lat all-in-one things.

Also, I am keeping in mind that I want both sides to be equal. That is why I am using the SAME weight for both sides and thus the variance in reps. My left side is slightly weaker, but using the same weights, I think I will be better off being "balanced" rather than doing more/less reps cuz then the other side won't grow.

also I only do 1 more rep...is that even that much of a big deal?

please free to discuss if I am wrong/delusional
 

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It's not that big of a deal, no. I say keep the reps the same. Exactly the same.


Also, get access to a gym or an olympic weight set with a barbell. That will help you pack on some good mass.
 

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ok I will have access when I go into college. and I will keep teh reps the same from now on.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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home of the wildcats
 

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Potbelly said:
nono. that's not 6 sets. It's 3 sets. The left column is for my left arm, and the right column is for my right arm. :)

if that's still too many sets please let me know :(
Oh. Yea.

hmm.. good luck then!
 

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Decline Situps
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8x15
7x15

Overhead Extensions
10x25
10x25
8x25

Flat DB Press
9x70
8x70
8x70

Incline DB Press
10x50
9x50
10x50

It's Sunday so.....

Weight: 172 lbs
%BF: 21.7
 
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oops double post. added weight and bf
 

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hey guys I'm back from europe. I didn't quit if that's what you were wondering :). anyways, I was gone 1 month and gained 5-7 pounds, so I will rest a bit and get back into it soon
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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8x35 10x35

DB Curls
5x25 8x25
4x25 7x25

DB Deadlift
13x70

I started doing deadlifts like lifeforce said in a post. Doing one rep, then starting over from the beginning so the back form doesn't get messed up in the end.
 
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DB Rows - R 10x35
DB Rows - R 10x35
DB Rows - R 10x35

DB Rows - L 8x35
DB Rows - L 8x35
DB Rows - L 8x35

Lat Pulldowns - 10x90
Lat Pulldowns - 10x90
Lat Pulldowns - 10x90
 

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DB Bench - 8x70
DB Bench - 8x70

DB Incline Bench - 10x50
DB Incline Bench - 10x50
DB Incline Bench - 10x50

DB Overhead Extensions - 11x25
DB Overhead Extensions - 10x25
DB Overhead Extensions - 10x25

Weighted Crunches - 10x15
Weighted Crunches - 7x15
Weighted Crunches - 6x15
 

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DB Shoulder Press - 8x50
DB Shoulder Press - 8x50
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Hamstring Curl - 12x90
Hamstring Curl - 12x90
Hamstring Curl - 12x90

Calf Raise - R 17x70
Calf Raise - R 16x70
Calf Raise - R 16x70
Calf Raise - L 17x70
Calf Raise - R 16x70
Calf Raise - R 15x70

DB Squats - 7x70
DB Squats - 6x70
 

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DB Bench - 10x70 +2 Reps
DB Bench - 8x70
DB Bench - 8x70

DB Incline Bench - 10x50
DB Incline Bench - 10x50
DB Incline Bench - 10x50

DB Overhead Extensions - 10x25 -1 Rep
DB Overhead Extensions - 10x25
DB Overhead Extensions - 10x25

Weighted Crunches - 10x20 +5 lbs
Weighted Crunches - 10x20 +3 Rep, +5 lbs
Weighted Crunches - 8x20 +2 Rep, +5 lbs
:woo: :box: :woo: :cheer: :woo:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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