"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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After todays lift I ate a can of tuna+cheesestick and 10 mins later a Cliff Builder Bar. My goal was to get basiclly high protien/low carbs/med fats. Is that good or should i be packing down everything, note I am trying to keep a low bf% even if overall weight gain is slower. I also may be buying Whey Gold Standard and taking that an hour after my lift, it's that or creatine and cycle it, but im not sure what would get me the best results. Thanks in advance for any help, im still new to this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have a large protein shake with water (65-70 grams) and 2 bananas.

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well i forgot i ate a bananna and i drink a gallon+ a day, but I was told by my friends' lifting coaches that you can only process 42g of protien a meal, is this true?
 

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oh, so then it would be better to have alot of 32.578g meals. Anyway any more input on snack or creatine/vs 100& whey gold standard?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Quagmire911 said:
No it is actually 32.578g.
This is just utter BS, trust me on this 60 grams min after workouts. It's also better to have more than less when it comes to protein anyway.

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Lmfao, you really don't know when someone is joking do you heh. Of course it is not bloody 32.....

Everyone is unique and has different height/bf/metabolisms/genetics. Therefore the amount any one person can digest will vary wildly.

Having said that you are correct. More is better when it comes to protein and noone (little girls excluded) should be getting 30g pwo.
 

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Mad Manic said:
This is just utter BS, trust me on this 60 grams min after workouts. It's also better to have more than less when it comes to protein anyway.

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haha Quag is just taking the piss.

edit. he beat me to it
 

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oh you were kidding i was gunna say heh, wow. well is it ok to have lo carbs if i dont want to ge fat or what
 

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oh you were kidding i was gunna say heh, wow. well is it ok to have lo carbs if i dont want to ge fat or what
Either bulk or cut, do not get stuck in a middle ground. There is nobody with a good physique out there who did it by semi bulking/semi cutting. Either make the sacrifice to bulk and add a bit of fat in the process or don't. See you on the Olympia stage in 7-8 years mate. :)

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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Either bulk or cut, do not get stuck in a middle ground. There is nobody with a good physique out there who did it by semi bulking/semi cutting. Either make the sacrifice to bulk and add a bit of fat in the process or don't. See you on the Olympia stage in 7-8 years mate. :)

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=81893

I'm sure you agree minimal fat gain during weight gain is desirable!!!
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=81893

I'm sure you agree minimal fat gain during weight gain is desirable!!!
Well I read it and I wasn't too sure what he was trying to preach. His first paragraph wasn't describing bulking but just getting fat as an excuse for bulking, then the 2nd half was about tredding on thin ice and gaining very slow and lean, almost similar to cutting but just a slight calorie surplus. IMO the best way to bulk is to bulk slowly for a long period of time, adding a bit of fat in the process as that's inevitable, then cutting for 2-3 months. I don't think you need to bother with too much cardio and whatnot, it just drains you for energy to be used in weightlifting sessions. Then again if you're doing 5 days weights and 1/2 days cardio like me, that's pretty damn active anyway. But I agree with healthy diet, little/no junk food and carb curbing.

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Have a large protein shake with water (65-70 grams) and 2 bananas.

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Same with me, bananas have starchy and high GI carbs.
 

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No it is actually 32.578g.

no its actually 32.58 (you have to round it up)
 

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Well I read it and I wasn't too sure what he was trying to preach. His first paragraph wasn't describing bulking but just getting fat as an excuse for bulking, then the 2nd half was about tredding on thin ice and gaining very slow and lean, almost similar to cutting but just a slight calorie surplus. IMO the best way to bulk is to bulk slowly for a long period of time, adding a bit of fat in the process as that's inevitable, then cutting for 2-3 months. I don't think you need to bother with too much cardio and whatnot, it just drains you for energy to be used in weightlifting sessions. Then again if you're doing 5 days weights and 1/2 days cardio like me, that's pretty damn active anyway. But I agree with healthy diet, little/no junk food and carb curbing.

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read about the anabolic diet, really easy way of staying lean while adding muscle

http://www.t-nation.com/tmagnum/rea...A5FFB22862A65D28F742.hydra?id=658379&pageNo=0
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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