"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Postworkout Snack

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After todays lift I ate a can of tuna+cheesestick and 10 mins later a Cliff Builder Bar. My goal was to get basiclly high protien/low carbs/med fats. Is that good or should i be packing down everything, note I am trying to keep a low bf% even if overall weight gain is slower. I also may be buying Whey Gold Standard and taking that an hour after my lift, it's that or creatine and cycle it, but im not sure what would get me the best results. Thanks in advance for any help, im still new to this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have a large protein shake with water (65-70 grams) and 2 bananas.

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well i forgot i ate a bananna and i drink a gallon+ a day, but I was told by my friends' lifting coaches that you can only process 42g of protien a meal, is this true?
 

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oh, so then it would be better to have alot of 32.578g meals. Anyway any more input on snack or creatine/vs 100& whey gold standard?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Quagmire911 said:
No it is actually 32.578g.
This is just utter BS, trust me on this 60 grams min after workouts. It's also better to have more than less when it comes to protein anyway.

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Lmfao, you really don't know when someone is joking do you heh. Of course it is not bloody 32.....

Everyone is unique and has different height/bf/metabolisms/genetics. Therefore the amount any one person can digest will vary wildly.

Having said that you are correct. More is better when it comes to protein and noone (little girls excluded) should be getting 30g pwo.
 

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Mad Manic said:
This is just utter BS, trust me on this 60 grams min after workouts. It's also better to have more than less when it comes to protein anyway.

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haha Quag is just taking the piss.

edit. he beat me to it
 

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oh you were kidding i was gunna say heh, wow. well is it ok to have lo carbs if i dont want to ge fat or what
 

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oh you were kidding i was gunna say heh, wow. well is it ok to have lo carbs if i dont want to ge fat or what
Either bulk or cut, do not get stuck in a middle ground. There is nobody with a good physique out there who did it by semi bulking/semi cutting. Either make the sacrifice to bulk and add a bit of fat in the process or don't. See you on the Olympia stage in 7-8 years mate. :)

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mad Manic said:
Either bulk or cut, do not get stuck in a middle ground. There is nobody with a good physique out there who did it by semi bulking/semi cutting. Either make the sacrifice to bulk and add a bit of fat in the process or don't. See you on the Olympia stage in 7-8 years mate. :)

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=81893

I'm sure you agree minimal fat gain during weight gain is desirable!!!
 

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=81893

I'm sure you agree minimal fat gain during weight gain is desirable!!!
Well I read it and I wasn't too sure what he was trying to preach. His first paragraph wasn't describing bulking but just getting fat as an excuse for bulking, then the 2nd half was about tredding on thin ice and gaining very slow and lean, almost similar to cutting but just a slight calorie surplus. IMO the best way to bulk is to bulk slowly for a long period of time, adding a bit of fat in the process as that's inevitable, then cutting for 2-3 months. I don't think you need to bother with too much cardio and whatnot, it just drains you for energy to be used in weightlifting sessions. Then again if you're doing 5 days weights and 1/2 days cardio like me, that's pretty damn active anyway. But I agree with healthy diet, little/no junk food and carb curbing.

MM
 

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Mad Manic said:
Have a large protein shake with water (65-70 grams) and 2 bananas.

MM
Same with me, bananas have starchy and high GI carbs.
 

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Quagmire911 said:
No it is actually 32.578g.

no its actually 32.58 (you have to round it up)
 

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Well I read it and I wasn't too sure what he was trying to preach. His first paragraph wasn't describing bulking but just getting fat as an excuse for bulking, then the 2nd half was about tredding on thin ice and gaining very slow and lean, almost similar to cutting but just a slight calorie surplus. IMO the best way to bulk is to bulk slowly for a long period of time, adding a bit of fat in the process as that's inevitable, then cutting for 2-3 months. I don't think you need to bother with too much cardio and whatnot, it just drains you for energy to be used in weightlifting sessions. Then again if you're doing 5 days weights and 1/2 days cardio like me, that's pretty damn active anyway. But I agree with healthy diet, little/no junk food and carb curbing.

MM
read about the anabolic diet, really easy way of staying lean while adding muscle

http://www.t-nation.com/tmagnum/rea...A5FFB22862A65D28F742.hydra?id=658379&pageNo=0
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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