I invited my girlfriend for a drink at a very romantic place which we frequented in the beginning of our relationship. She took control immediately of the conversation and as a defensive mechanism she would not let me get a word in edgewise. She babbled and ranted on and on about how I let her down and then had the gall to ask for a dress which I bought and showed her meant for Christmas. She also asked me to take her to the Andrea Bocelli concert this Wed. evening which I have a pair of tickets to. I was so angry with her that I lied and said that I am going with someone else and she went insane repeating over and over how could I do that. I told her that I lied because she wouldn't let me talk at all and she just repeated again and again "how could I invite her out". She was just repeating that and I must have explained a million times that I lied to shock her into stopping. Nevertheless, we split and it was ugly. I feel terrible but there's no turning back with her.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Postscript.....
- Thread starter Palatino
- Start date