"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bangoker

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hey all


just wondering, just HOW bad is it to call of the first date?

i know it is a "tactic" to call of the 2nd date and change it to another day, but its just that i just fell down and kind of injured my ancle....cant really walk well...and i dont think i can drive.... :S

do you think she will understand?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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thinking twice....or should i like still have the date and like not making it like a really important issue, but just mention my thing, so she sees im actually willling to "sacrifice a lil" to keep my word/(responsible man) ??

or is that just to desperate?
 

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WTF are you talking about? If you don't have something important that you need to do, there is no reason to cancel the first date! I think she will think you are a complete IDIOT if you pull that lame crap. Go on the date, have a good time, and stop thinking about "tatics" this isn't a wargame Rambo.

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Originally posted by Grey Fox
WTF are you talking about? If you don't have something important that you need to do, there is no reason to cancel the first date! I think she will think you are a complete IDIOT if you pull that lame crap. Go on the date, have a good time, and stop thinking about "tatics" this isn't a wargame Rambo.

-Grey Fox
i believe he hurt his ankle.
 

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I think thats the excuse he was planning on using. But if you really did hurt your leg, just change up the date. Have her come over and watch a movie, order out, and let her play nurse when she sees you all laid up, just don't over do it.

-Grey Fox
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She's a ugly b****

Think of it like this,

If she was a ugly b****, would you give a damn if you cancelled and she didn't understand?

No, you wouldn't.

Go on with your life. Remember that YOU are the catch, not her.

Anti dump says this in another angle, in another way to see things.

Anti-dump es inspiracion de Pook... :cool: nadamas para que sepas.
 

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Originally posted by Grey Fox
WTF are you talking about? If you don't have something important that you need to do, there is no reason to cancel the first date! I think she will think you are a complete IDIOT if you pull that lame crap. Go on the date, have a good time, and stop thinking about "tatics" this isn't a wargame Rambo.

-Grey Fox
:eek:

i DID hurt my ancle, I still can kind of "walk" but in a limping way


Originally posted by huge_guy_pimpin
i believe he hurt his ankle.
thanks for reading the whole thing :)
 

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My bad, it just read like that was a B.S. excuse. Hope the leg gets better though it never hurts to let a girl play nurse ;)

-Grey Fox
 

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I would also like to get the girls number but I'm going on a operation(tonzils) so I couldn't call for a week or 2 after getting the number.I think I'll skip till I get better.
 
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