"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Postive Thoughts will lead you to a good life!

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Most of my threads and posts are always negative am right?Yes this is a postive thread Im going to become a DJ and change my life.I have tooken all your guys advice and this friday Im going to the mall bymyself to find that one lucky lady.I will guarantee I will have atleast one number.And I will be posting good stuff about my life even people tease me well im going to stop caring.And you know what I notice when I think about good stuff, good stuff happen all this time I been complaining and giving pointless excuses well this time Im for real going to make a change.I will become a DJ and alpha male no more having low self esteem everyday Im going to have super confidence.Well guys this is my first step into changining and making my life better.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My goal for this Friday and the entire weekend is to go to the mall. Bymyself approach all the hot females I think are cute.And try to get atleast one number I really dont care if they call me dorky and or rejected.Because I wont ever see them again.So im going to stop caring and work on improving myself and life.
 
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pfffft, sarging in your daydreams doesn't count. The day you get a girl I'll give you a damn horse with wings.
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Trust me man,when I go to the mall this Friday I will find that lucky lady I been looking for.I know im 17 soon to be 18 and im still a virgin never been kissed or had a girlfriend or been to party.But im going to work on that next year im going to new school and i will be a senior.So friday is one of the biggest days ever!
 
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OK GOOD !!! THATS AW@SOME!!!! YOU WANT A MEDAL?? there is no point in making this thread, instead you should write it down in your diary or whatever, when about to approach a girl, think about happy moment!! KNOW THAT IF YOU WONT APPROaCH< YOU A LOOSER, if you will you are a champ.
 
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I wouldn't listen to most of these children. Don't worry so much about the girls. Concentrate on growing as a person and things will take care of themselves. Ditch the mall and discover who and what you are. Read books, listen to good music, meditate, fast, visit an art gallery, learn a language, work with sick children. It doesn't matter. The important thing is that you grow as a person. 99% of these guys on here have lives that you don't want.

Remember, you cannot get others to believe in you until you believe in yourself. Taking control of your feelings and emotions is the single greatest challenge that you will ever face. 99% of the people on this forum have not yet achieved this. That is why they all post the very same thoughts.

I am ridiculed on here for being different than they are. I take great pride in that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Finally, a post where dreamx doesn't complain.

Now that I have that off my chest, congrats dreamx. Its nice to see you gaining enough confidence to get out there. Just dont get discouraged when out there. Remember, all she can do is reject you, nothing more.
 
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dreamx said:
Most of my threads and posts are always negative am right?Yes this is a postive thread Im going to become a DJ and change my life.I have tooken all your guys advice and this friday Im going to the mall bymyself to find that one lucky lady.I will guarantee I will have atleast one number.And I will be posting good stuff about my life even people tease me well im going to stop caring.And you know what I notice when I think about good stuff, good stuff happen all this time I been complaining and giving pointless excuses well this time Im for real going to make a change.I will become a DJ and alpha male no more having low self esteem everyday Im going to have super confidence.Well guys this is my first step into changining and making my life better.

me to vegasguy&viper:kick: LMAO!
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Good job man. I'm proud of you--that's the first step. Now follow through with your words, for ACTIONS speak louder!

Go for it, bro. IM me again if you need further assistance.
 
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go for it man . repeat after me

"depression n rejection are mindstates. leave an impression and dejection wont ever come my way"

hahah i jus made that up. but keep it in mind
 
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