"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Postive Thoughts will lead you to a good life!

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Most of my threads and posts are always negative am right?Yes this is a postive thread Im going to become a DJ and change my life.I have tooken all your guys advice and this friday Im going to the mall bymyself to find that one lucky lady.I will guarantee I will have atleast one number.And I will be posting good stuff about my life even people tease me well im going to stop caring.And you know what I notice when I think about good stuff, good stuff happen all this time I been complaining and giving pointless excuses well this time Im for real going to make a change.I will become a DJ and alpha male no more having low self esteem everyday Im going to have super confidence.Well guys this is my first step into changining and making my life better.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My goal for this Friday and the entire weekend is to go to the mall. Bymyself approach all the hot females I think are cute.And try to get atleast one number I really dont care if they call me dorky and or rejected.Because I wont ever see them again.So im going to stop caring and work on improving myself and life.
 
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pfffft, sarging in your daydreams doesn't count. The day you get a girl I'll give you a damn horse with wings.
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Trust me man,when I go to the mall this Friday I will find that lucky lady I been looking for.I know im 17 soon to be 18 and im still a virgin never been kissed or had a girlfriend or been to party.But im going to work on that next year im going to new school and i will be a senior.So friday is one of the biggest days ever!
 
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OK GOOD !!! THATS AW@SOME!!!! YOU WANT A MEDAL?? there is no point in making this thread, instead you should write it down in your diary or whatever, when about to approach a girl, think about happy moment!! KNOW THAT IF YOU WONT APPROaCH< YOU A LOOSER, if you will you are a champ.
 
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I wouldn't listen to most of these children. Don't worry so much about the girls. Concentrate on growing as a person and things will take care of themselves. Ditch the mall and discover who and what you are. Read books, listen to good music, meditate, fast, visit an art gallery, learn a language, work with sick children. It doesn't matter. The important thing is that you grow as a person. 99% of these guys on here have lives that you don't want.

Remember, you cannot get others to believe in you until you believe in yourself. Taking control of your feelings and emotions is the single greatest challenge that you will ever face. 99% of the people on this forum have not yet achieved this. That is why they all post the very same thoughts.

I am ridiculed on here for being different than they are. I take great pride in that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Finally, a post where dreamx doesn't complain.

Now that I have that off my chest, congrats dreamx. Its nice to see you gaining enough confidence to get out there. Just dont get discouraged when out there. Remember, all she can do is reject you, nothing more.
 
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dreamx said:
Most of my threads and posts are always negative am right?Yes this is a postive thread Im going to become a DJ and change my life.I have tooken all your guys advice and this friday Im going to the mall bymyself to find that one lucky lady.I will guarantee I will have atleast one number.And I will be posting good stuff about my life even people tease me well im going to stop caring.And you know what I notice when I think about good stuff, good stuff happen all this time I been complaining and giving pointless excuses well this time Im for real going to make a change.I will become a DJ and alpha male no more having low self esteem everyday Im going to have super confidence.Well guys this is my first step into changining and making my life better.

me to vegasguy&viper:kick: LMAO!
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Good job man. I'm proud of you--that's the first step. Now follow through with your words, for ACTIONS speak louder!

Go for it, bro. IM me again if you need further assistance.
 
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go for it man . repeat after me

"depression n rejection are mindstates. leave an impression and dejection wont ever come my way"

hahah i jus made that up. but keep it in mind
 
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