TorturedSoul
Senior Don Juan
yeah hummmmm It was called.....well I cant remember but Id like to know why it was deleted moved whatever so I wont have something that took me a long time to type deleted again
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
no thats not the one I haveint posted anything like thatOriginally posted by De La Soul:
Fvck, I think that was me dude.
It was about your pen!s problem, huh?
It was in Health and Fitness, and while trying to move it to Anything Else, I accidently closed the topic in both sections.
Feel free to re-post the question in the appropriate forum (you can still see the answers in H + F).
Sorry,
De La.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I think we are not completely free of using the right of self expression on this forum because I got a post to a thread that another guy did deleted!Originally posted by TorturedSoul:
hummm that gives me an idea though I will post something about that.