TorturedSoul
Senior Don Juan
yeah hummmmm It was called.....well I cant remember but Id like to know why it was deleted moved whatever so I wont have something that took me a long time to type deleted again
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
no thats not the one I haveint posted anything like thatOriginally posted by De La Soul:
Fvck, I think that was me dude.
It was about your pen!s problem, huh?
It was in Health and Fitness, and while trying to move it to Anything Else, I accidently closed the topic in both sections.
Feel free to re-post the question in the appropriate forum (you can still see the answers in H + F).
Sorry,
De La.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I think we are not completely free of using the right of self expression on this forum because I got a post to a thread that another guy did deleted!Originally posted by TorturedSoul:
hummm that gives me an idea though I will post something about that.