"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pdx1138

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I'll be the first to admit I don't have much experience spinning multiple plates and keeping them spinning. I occasionally have 2 or 3 going but as my luck would have it they drop off quickly and I'm back to just one interested girl.

I'm now back up to 3 again. 2 I've not yet met but will soon and one of them is really into me, we've gone out twice and kiss closed 2 days ago.

Any tips on successfully keeping those plates going long term would be much appreciated.

How do you keep them from knowing of the others?

How best to deal with them asking about others.. or if one wants exclusivity...what do you say?

and anything else you can think of.

Thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

PrettyBoyAJ

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I thought I plate spent meant girls that you actually had sex with :s.

Just do you. Show them you have options. Say your busy... When she asks you what your doing give her vague responces. If she asks you if you are talking to anyone else don't answer her question. Say your focused on school and like to chill.

If she wants exclusivety just tell her you are a very busy person and not looking for a relationship. Tell her your not a boy so you can't be her boyfriend.

That's how I deal with my women.
 
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