"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pdx1138

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I'll be the first to admit I don't have much experience spinning multiple plates and keeping them spinning. I occasionally have 2 or 3 going but as my luck would have it they drop off quickly and I'm back to just one interested girl.

I'm now back up to 3 again. 2 I've not yet met but will soon and one of them is really into me, we've gone out twice and kiss closed 2 days ago.

Any tips on successfully keeping those plates going long term would be much appreciated.

How do you keep them from knowing of the others?

How best to deal with them asking about others.. or if one wants exclusivity...what do you say?

and anything else you can think of.

Thanks!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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I thought I plate spent meant girls that you actually had sex with :s.

Just do you. Show them you have options. Say your busy... When she asks you what your doing give her vague responces. If she asks you if you are talking to anyone else don't answer her question. Say your focused on school and like to chill.

If she wants exclusivety just tell her you are a very busy person and not looking for a relationship. Tell her your not a boy so you can't be her boyfriend.

That's how I deal with my women.
 
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