"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Post your picture ONLY
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
CableLight
Master Don Juan
Abbott
Master Don Juan
My picture from Senior High Prom (it's slightly outdated but not by too much). And I still look the same, minus the clothes in the pic. (see it to know what I mean).
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GSBQRQB&key=DMR
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GSBQRQB&key=DMR
MaGiC_PiMp_69
Don Juan
Here is me
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GSKYAZK&key=UGD
anyone got comments of my look good or bad please let me know.
http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=GSKYAZK&key=UGD
anyone got comments of my look good or bad please let me know.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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PVT.Garland
Guest
Czar
Don Juan
It's me, I swear...
silverwex
Master Don Juan
Chewy Bagel
Senior Don Juan
Taken this morning in the mirror.
It's all right to be afraid.
http://profiles.yahoo.com/chewy_bagel
It's all right to be afraid.
http://profiles.yahoo.com/chewy_bagel
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Golden Arms
Master Don Juan
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Heres a pic of me the day i got my tattoo
http://pix2.hotornot.com/pics/HQ/KM/NU/HS/KUSUKLBSQPXM.jpg
http://pix2.hotornot.com/pics/HQ/KM/NU/HS/KUSUKLBSQPXM.jpg
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MidwestFreek
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Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
OO OOOOO NOW DO ME!!!
The photo is kinda blurred, I dunno why. Anyways this is me.
http://www.angelfire.com/ab7/whatthe/Me
^_^ I look lost but oh well.. In a few days I'm gonna get some pics of me and my chick so I guess I'll post them, and hopefully, they won't be blurred.
Look how frickin skinny I am!!! I need to gain weight!! I need to bulk my arms too!!!!!!!!
The photo is kinda blurred, I dunno why. Anyways this is me.
http://www.angelfire.com/ab7/whatthe/Me
^_^ I look lost but oh well.. In a few days I'm gonna get some pics of me and my chick so I guess I'll post them, and hopefully, they won't be blurred.
Look how frickin skinny I am!!! I need to gain weight!! I need to bulk my arms too!!!!!!!!
I'm mexican and yeah I would have a mustache like that if I didn't shave it. *Chills through back* Mustaches like that are nasty. Or atleast I think.
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-.-
Senior Don Juan
my pic too...
well.. since gunwitch guy posted his pic.. i thought i'd post mine too. i'm quite shy about approaching. just give your honest opinions guys...
i grew up very skinny and had alot of pimples, and due to that i have low self esteem. i am currently working out religiously and have gained 45+ lbs in the past 16months, hence the link:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=3460799
well.. since gunwitch guy posted his pic.. i thought i'd post mine too. i'm quite shy about approaching. just give your honest opinions guys...
i grew up very skinny and had alot of pimples, and due to that i have low self esteem. i am currently working out religiously and have gained 45+ lbs in the past 16months, hence the link:
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?s=&postid=3460799
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
My pic too
Well hell, I might as well put mine up too, since Gunwitch and -.- posted theirs up.
http://www.angelfire.com/ab7/whatthe/index.html
If the links don't work, please copy and paste the links into your address bar.
Thank you Renegade for reminding me about that.
Well hell, I might as well put mine up too, since Gunwitch and -.- posted theirs up.
http://www.angelfire.com/ab7/whatthe/index.html
If the links don't work, please copy and paste the links into your address bar.
Thank you Renegade for reminding me about that.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.