"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I hope this works... Me at the Abq Muscle Car Nat's. (Posing with a beautiful AMX).

ETA: I created a Hot Or Not account for sh!ts and giggles. Hope the link works, I haven't received any votes on the current photo yet.

http://www.hotornot.com/m/r/?emid=EMOEARR
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rollo Tomassi

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Heh, is that an AMC Eagle? My mom had one of those.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You need a tan, plaything. I like the 2nd pic. You have a nice face.
 

pLaYtHiNg

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fertileTurtle said:
You need a tan, plaything. I like the 2nd pic. You have a nice face.
Heh... I usually am... I'm a pretty outdoorsy person... but thanks... :)

Some pretty good looking guys on here!!

Any particular reason we all post links instead of IMG's?? Just curious. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pLaYtHiNg said:
Heh... I usually am... I'm a pretty outdoorsy person... but thanks... :)

Some pretty good looking guys on here!!
And your not going to give names? :moon:
Any particular reason we all post links instead of IMG's?? Just curious. :)
The forum software doesn't allow the direct showing of images. Some forums do and some just don't.
 

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Here is one that was taken at a work party in December. I didn't know I was being photoed. Click Me
You are not bad looking by any means.

However I can immediately see that you have LSE.

With you it's 100% inner game.
 

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LOL from that one picture people can say that I have low self-esteem, awkward body language and give off a creepy vibe?

Hmm. I do admit the LSE part, but a creepy vibe?

Might the way I'm sitting have anything to do with the fact that I've was sitting in that chair for at least an hour? During that time some people were playing Rockband, I was sitting that way so I can easily look behind me at what they are doing. When this picture was taken I was looking at the TV.

The dress code was business casual. And what's wrong with my shirt?
 

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^it doesnt fit well, i wouldnt say you look creepy though

take cues from the way this guy is wearing a short sleeved shirt, he has a cool hairstyle as well

http://z.about.com/d/mensfashion/1/0/F/6/SP06redandwhite.JPG

the jeans look like they might be a bit too big as well

personally, i think darker jeans are more versatile as they can be dressed up with nice shoes more so than light blue can,

i only get the darker ones these days

ala

http://z.about.com/d/mensfashion/1/5/e/M/dieseljeans.jpg


+ rockband is awesome
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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