"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Magnatolia

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Hey Guys,

I'm curious what you guys look like. So post links to decent pictures. Say for example you post lots of successful FR's I'd like to know what you look like.

Here's mine:

http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BQRMOYA-VLM

And let me know what you think - what would be your honest opinions on how far my looks would take me.

ps: we can give each other 10's :D j/k

Cheers
J
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Magnatolia said:
Hey Guys,

I'm curious what you guys look like. So post links to decent pictures. Say for example you post lots of successful FR's I'd like to know what you look like.

Here's mine:

http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BQRMOYA-VLM

And let me know what you think - what would be your honest opinions on how far my looks would take me.

ps: we can give each other 10's :D j/k

Cheers
J
I would ditch the spiked hair style. It doesn't go well with your face and makes you look younger (not in a good way).
 

Socialreject

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I would ditch the spiked hair style. It doesn't go well with your face and makes you look younger (not in a good way).
Definitely. You have a square face so some cuts will look really bad while others look great. But it's definitely too long. I'd say go see a decent stylist.

Oh and you need to hit the gym cause you are skinny as hell :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WesCottII

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Magnatolia said:
Hey Guys,

I'm curious what you guys look like. So post links to decent pictures. Say for example you post lots of successful FR's I'd like to know what you look like.

Here's mine:

http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BQRMOYA-VLM

And let me know what you think - what would be your honest opinions on how far my looks would take me.

ps: we can give each other 10's :D j/k

Cheers
J

Check the profile.

Some constructive critisism? Bulk up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OfficeSpace

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Mine is in my profile. And I deffinitely agree with the guys on this Magnatolia; you need a different hairstyle. Personally, I think it'd look better much shorter... But yeah, see a hair stylist, bulk up some, and get some different style clothes. You'd be surprised how much different you'd look if you bulked up, got shorter hair, and got a stylish shirt.

Good luck bro!
 

Socialreject

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Looking sharp neonbase, and i mean that in the least gay way ever!

Nice build dcfball, but i think a bit more cutting would really benefit your looks.

Oh btw, Magnatolia, get a tan. Unless you have really silky skin, which you don't seem to have from the picture, a tan will improve your looks a lot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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