"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Magnatolia

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Hey Guys,

I'm curious what you guys look like. So post links to decent pictures. Say for example you post lots of successful FR's I'd like to know what you look like.

Here's mine:

http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BQRMOYA-VLM

And let me know what you think - what would be your honest opinions on how far my looks would take me.

ps: we can give each other 10's :D j/k

Cheers
J
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Magnatolia said:
Hey Guys,

I'm curious what you guys look like. So post links to decent pictures. Say for example you post lots of successful FR's I'd like to know what you look like.

Here's mine:

http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BQRMOYA-VLM

And let me know what you think - what would be your honest opinions on how far my looks would take me.

ps: we can give each other 10's :D j/k

Cheers
J
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I would ditch the spiked hair style. It doesn't go well with your face and makes you look younger (not in a good way).
 
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Socialreject

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
I would ditch the spiked hair style. It doesn't go well with your face and makes you look younger (not in a good way).
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Definitely. You have a square face so some cuts will look really bad while others look great. But it's definitely too long. I'd say go see a decent stylist.

Oh and you need to hit the gym cause you are skinny as hell :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WesCottII

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Magnatolia said:
Hey Guys,

I'm curious what you guys look like. So post links to decent pictures. Say for example you post lots of successful FR's I'd like to know what you look like.

Here's mine:

http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=BQRMOYA-VLM

And let me know what you think - what would be your honest opinions on how far my looks would take me.

ps: we can give each other 10's :D j/k

Cheers
J
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Check the profile.

Some constructive critisism? Bulk up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OfficeSpace

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Mine is in my profile. And I deffinitely agree with the guys on this Magnatolia; you need a different hairstyle. Personally, I think it'd look better much shorter... But yeah, see a hair stylist, bulk up some, and get some different style clothes. You'd be surprised how much different you'd look if you bulked up, got shorter hair, and got a stylish shirt.

Good luck bro!
 
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Socialreject

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Looking sharp neonbase, and i mean that in the least gay way ever!

Nice build dcfball, but i think a bit more cutting would really benefit your looks.

Oh btw, Magnatolia, get a tan. Unless you have really silky skin, which you don't seem to have from the picture, a tan will improve your looks a lot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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