Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hurrican

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go to http://www.hotornot.com and post your pic.

People will rate you and you might even get a confidence boost. Don't put any bad pics. Put a full body one.

I did it twice and got a 5.5-6.8 rating. I thought I was less then avg.

Don't register for the meet me section. Its lame.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hurrican said:
go to http://www.hotornot.com and post your pic.

People will rate you and you might even get a confidence boost. Don't put any bad pics. Put a full body one.

I did it twice and got a 5.5-6.8 rating. I thought I was less then avg.

Don't register for the meet me section. Its lame.
Don't think so. If I only expect 10s, which I of course do, I will not get a confidence boost, if that isn't the case.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Gotta wonder how long someone can last from acceptance based on the opinions of other people. :nervous:
 

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My beauty lies from within....From deep within. This is what my beloved Vika tells me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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johnmich

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People give you 1s n 2s just to make you feel bad.
In my opinion, a 1 is someone with no legs, no arms, facial warts, one ear, half a head of hair glasses 2 teeeth which are black and a head shaped like a pineapple. I have none of those so the 1s are clearly bullsh*t
 

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The site is strange. I've posted pics there and gotten anywhere from 3avg to 8.7avg after fifty votes. Most of my pics are around the 6.5 range (avg). Although the ratings are screwed up with all the ones people give each other. It takes someone really disgusting to rate them below a three.
 

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one of the major factors of your inner game is caring what other people think about you, unless your a model (i.e.every says your stunnings) this site will do more harm than good
 

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any girl showing the slightest bit of tit get 10s and 9s on that site.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Gotta wonder how long someone can last from acceptance based on the opinions of other people. :nervous:
You think the post would end after this, but yet it continues...
 

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Hurrican said:
go to http://www.hotornot.com and post your pic.

People will rate you and you might even get a confidence boost. Don't put any bad pics. Put a full body one.

I did it twice and got a 5.5-6.8 rating. I thought I was less then avg.

Don't register for the meet me section. Its lame.

No.:nono:
 
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KillaCam

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hotornot.com is awful.

In saying that, yeah i've been on there. Ratings are so inaccurate though, I fluctuated anywhere from 5.5-8.1.

And to agree with someone else up there, any sign of cleavage gets points. Some of those 9.9 and 10's are hardly worth their ratings.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MotoXXX

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thats a good fact, skin does skyrocket some chicks ratings. I am sold on the opinion that the guys giving skin shots high ratings are the guys sittin at home talkin to chicks on the internet, spoogin there loads on keyboards, and have probably never squeezed a set of titties before. Nice boobs and broke face equals 6, good enough to hit with the lights off. uh huh thats what I am saying.
 

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I am usually somewhere between an 8.5-9.5 on hotornot... But that site is so very unaccurate. I have had quite a bit of 1's and 2's that I believe are just made by some nerd guys that want to lower other peoples ratings down...

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EEKSAYB&key=TGM

Here is a screenshot example of how people have voted.. haha, so some people think I'm a 1 or a 2?

http://img65.imageshack.us/img65/8954/screenshot0ss.jpg


Don't rely on hotornot to tell you if you're hot or not... Rate yourself on your success with the opposite sex!

And yes, I bet if we just showed out bodies, we'd prolly get 9-10 ratings like those ugly chicks that show cleavage!
 

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Approval of others is something to get rid of, not something to encourage.
 

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read the hot or not faq - the results are not accurate until you have at least several thousand votes anyway.

i wouldn't put my pic there because there are way more guys than girls voting. but i measure my attractiveness by my ex's pic on there - she was a 9.
 

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I remember the first message I got from David Deangelo's mailbox said I should post a picture of myself on hot or not...






Take a picture of myself in front of a mirror holding a sign



YSSUW
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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