"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hurrican

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go to http://www.hotornot.com and post your pic.

People will rate you and you might even get a confidence boost. Don't put any bad pics. Put a full body one.

I did it twice and got a 5.5-6.8 rating. I thought I was less then avg.

Don't register for the meet me section. Its lame.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hurrican said:
go to http://www.hotornot.com and post your pic.

People will rate you and you might even get a confidence boost. Don't put any bad pics. Put a full body one.

I did it twice and got a 5.5-6.8 rating. I thought I was less then avg.

Don't register for the meet me section. Its lame.
Don't think so. If I only expect 10s, which I of course do, I will not get a confidence boost, if that isn't the case.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Gotta wonder how long someone can last from acceptance based on the opinions of other people. :nervous:
 

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My beauty lies from within....From deep within. This is what my beloved Vika tells me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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johnmich

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People give you 1s n 2s just to make you feel bad.
In my opinion, a 1 is someone with no legs, no arms, facial warts, one ear, half a head of hair glasses 2 teeeth which are black and a head shaped like a pineapple. I have none of those so the 1s are clearly bullsh*t
 

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The site is strange. I've posted pics there and gotten anywhere from 3avg to 8.7avg after fifty votes. Most of my pics are around the 6.5 range (avg). Although the ratings are screwed up with all the ones people give each other. It takes someone really disgusting to rate them below a three.
 

Doggystyle

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one of the major factors of your inner game is caring what other people think about you, unless your a model (i.e.every says your stunnings) this site will do more harm than good
 

johnmich

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any girl showing the slightest bit of tit get 10s and 9s on that site.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sexual

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Gotta wonder how long someone can last from acceptance based on the opinions of other people. :nervous:
You think the post would end after this, but yet it continues...
 

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Hurrican said:
go to http://www.hotornot.com and post your pic.

People will rate you and you might even get a confidence boost. Don't put any bad pics. Put a full body one.

I did it twice and got a 5.5-6.8 rating. I thought I was less then avg.

Don't register for the meet me section. Its lame.

No.:nono:
 
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KillaCam

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hotornot.com is awful.

In saying that, yeah i've been on there. Ratings are so inaccurate though, I fluctuated anywhere from 5.5-8.1.

And to agree with someone else up there, any sign of cleavage gets points. Some of those 9.9 and 10's are hardly worth their ratings.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MotoXXX

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thats a good fact, skin does skyrocket some chicks ratings. I am sold on the opinion that the guys giving skin shots high ratings are the guys sittin at home talkin to chicks on the internet, spoogin there loads on keyboards, and have probably never squeezed a set of titties before. Nice boobs and broke face equals 6, good enough to hit with the lights off. uh huh thats what I am saying.
 

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I am usually somewhere between an 8.5-9.5 on hotornot... But that site is so very unaccurate. I have had quite a bit of 1's and 2's that I believe are just made by some nerd guys that want to lower other peoples ratings down...

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=EEKSAYB&key=TGM

Here is a screenshot example of how people have voted.. haha, so some people think I'm a 1 or a 2?

http://img65.imageshack.us/img65/8954/screenshot0ss.jpg


Don't rely on hotornot to tell you if you're hot or not... Rate yourself on your success with the opposite sex!

And yes, I bet if we just showed out bodies, we'd prolly get 9-10 ratings like those ugly chicks that show cleavage!
 

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Approval of others is something to get rid of, not something to encourage.
 

poohead

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read the hot or not faq - the results are not accurate until you have at least several thousand votes anyway.

i wouldn't put my pic there because there are way more guys than girls voting. but i measure my attractiveness by my ex's pic on there - she was a 9.
 

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I remember the first message I got from David Deangelo's mailbox said I should post a picture of myself on hot or not...






Take a picture of myself in front of a mirror holding a sign



YSSUW
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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