Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cool layout, did you do it yourself?benassi said:
Yo...we go to the same school...haha this is too ****ing funnybenassi said:
Whats wrong with black preppy people? Why is it imperative that you mention that? You have NO room to talk considining you look like a fag.dannowillbookem said:man.
theres ALOT of ugly people on here. haha oh well thats why youre here.
theres also alot of preppy black guys here.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Lets see youDogFashionDisco said:You guys look like the cast of Will and Grace.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thanks buddy! 1996 Jetta GLS... good call!TheNewGuy said:Nice Jetta. Looks like an older model from the tail lights, I'm gonna say '96 GLS?
You mentioned you were getting a turbo (I assume 1.8T)... I wouldn't. People beat the **** out of turbos, the engine might not be in the best condition when you get it. I like the GLX VR6 myself...
If anybody wants my myspace link, PM me.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Haha, I love Volkswagens. For my first car I'm looking at either a 98 or 96 GLS. My friend has a '04 GLI, it's sooooo nice. Rich bastard...AC/DC said:Thanks buddy! 1996 Jetta GLS... good call!
Yea it's a 2001 1.8T... dude's holding it for me. If it breaks, good. That's just an excuse to get the K04 Turbo thrown in there.... :rockon: and downpipe... and hot chick riding shotgun.. yee!
oakraiderz2 said:Whats wrong with black preppy people? Why is it imperative that you mention that? You have NO room to talk considining you look like a fag.
EDIT: Why are you people adding me?
mmm knew thatd get me shiit. well i never said theres a 'way' black people should dress, its just an observation. if i said theres a lotta thug white guys on here, no one would give a shiit. never said it was good or bad, just a fashion type that showed up alot in the profiles.DA KID said:What's a black person suppose to dress like huh thugged out with baggy jeans throwin up gangs signs. Shut the **** up faggot dress to impress do whateva **** i want. Your life gets a![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.