"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dadmonson

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Post what u are insecure about yourself. It could be anything that u feel self conciense about. To get us on the rite track I'll start off.
I have this darkened indented chicken pox mark right in on the corner of my right eye bone(Iguesss thats what u callit, kinda like a beauty mark. Also I have a little bit of a gap between my 2 front teeth and my voice gets kinda shaky and cracky sometimes. I let those things hold me back from gettin girls, but if I ever get those worked out than girls better beware.

Iight, don't let me be the only one come on and post yours too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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And the purpose of this is???? :confused:
 

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i have a pretty big head, and although not small, I don't have the biggest **** in the world
 

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Actually, some women find the gap between the two front teeth sexy. I've been called the terminator because of mine.

I also read somewhere that it can indicate a higher level of testosterone in men.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
And the purpose of this is???? :confused:
how about none? that's back when i first found this site. you've been here since dec. 2004 and you still let things like a gap between your teeth hold you back...that's what are called limiting-beliefs

my nose is visibly still broken...so ****ing what, it doesn't stop me, and i'm not insecure about it. and it doesn't hold me back even .0000000001%

Originally posted by tmpgstx

No rules are necessary. Rules are only for people with major insecurities.
dadmonson, get in the game dude.
 

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Originally posted by h2o
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how about none? that's back when i first found this site. you've been here since dec. 2004 and you still let things like a gap between your teeth hold you back...that's what are called limiting-beliefs

my nose is visibly still broken...so ****ing what, it doesn't stop me, and i'm not insecure about it. and it doesn't hold me back even .0000000001%



dadmonson, get in the game dude.
Cry some more. Maybe you'll get your way.
 

Brian20o2

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I dont really have any. Just things I think would make me feel better eg. Money. Yes, I know you dont need money or a car or this and that... But hey, Im Trying to get better. Although I'm not going as fast as I wish, I am seeing significant changes for the better in me.
 

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
Cry some more. Maybe you'll get your way.
He isn't crying.

He's telling others to beleive in themselves.

I've got crowded teeth, one of mine is pushed behind 2 others, which creates a BIG gap which has a tooth behind it.

I've got fair skin with freckles.

I've got pimples.

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These are not insecurities.
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I am out sarging and getting girls every week.

At one point in time they were insecurities. I am now well over them.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by dadmonson
Post what u are insecure about yourself. It could be anything that u feel self conciense about. To get us on the rite track I'll start off.
I have this darkened indented chicken pox mark right in on the corner of my right eye bone(Iguesss thats what u callit, kinda like a beauty mark. Also I have a little bit of a gap between my 2 front teeth and my voice gets kinda shaky and cracky sometimes. I let those things hold me back from gettin girls, but if I ever get those worked out than girls better beware.

Iight, don't let me be the only one come on and post yours too.
yah sound like a bi-tch! Grow the fu-ck up and stop acting like a girl. You are insecure about a mark above your eye? are you serious? LMAO the path to manhood for you will be a very long one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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