"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dadmonson

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Post what u are insecure about yourself. It could be anything that u feel self conciense about. To get us on the rite track I'll start off.
I have this darkened indented chicken pox mark right in on the corner of my right eye bone(Iguesss thats what u callit, kinda like a beauty mark. Also I have a little bit of a gap between my 2 front teeth and my voice gets kinda shaky and cracky sometimes. I let those things hold me back from gettin girls, but if I ever get those worked out than girls better beware.

Iight, don't let me be the only one come on and post yours too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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And the purpose of this is???? :confused:
 

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i have a pretty big head, and although not small, I don't have the biggest **** in the world
 

tmpgstx

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Actually, some women find the gap between the two front teeth sexy. I've been called the terminator because of mine.

I also read somewhere that it can indicate a higher level of testosterone in men.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
And the purpose of this is???? :confused:
how about none? that's back when i first found this site. you've been here since dec. 2004 and you still let things like a gap between your teeth hold you back...that's what are called limiting-beliefs

my nose is visibly still broken...so ****ing what, it doesn't stop me, and i'm not insecure about it. and it doesn't hold me back even .0000000001%

Originally posted by tmpgstx

No rules are necessary. Rules are only for people with major insecurities.
dadmonson, get in the game dude.
 

thederekeffect1

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Originally posted by h2o
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how about none? that's back when i first found this site. you've been here since dec. 2004 and you still let things like a gap between your teeth hold you back...that's what are called limiting-beliefs

my nose is visibly still broken...so ****ing what, it doesn't stop me, and i'm not insecure about it. and it doesn't hold me back even .0000000001%



dadmonson, get in the game dude.
Cry some more. Maybe you'll get your way.
 

Brian20o2

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I dont really have any. Just things I think would make me feel better eg. Money. Yes, I know you dont need money or a car or this and that... But hey, Im Trying to get better. Although I'm not going as fast as I wish, I am seeing significant changes for the better in me.
 

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
Cry some more. Maybe you'll get your way.
He isn't crying.

He's telling others to beleive in themselves.

I've got crowded teeth, one of mine is pushed behind 2 others, which creates a BIG gap which has a tooth behind it.

I've got fair skin with freckles.

I've got pimples.

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These are not insecurities.
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I am out sarging and getting girls every week.

At one point in time they were insecurities. I am now well over them.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by dadmonson
Post what u are insecure about yourself. It could be anything that u feel self conciense about. To get us on the rite track I'll start off.
I have this darkened indented chicken pox mark right in on the corner of my right eye bone(Iguesss thats what u callit, kinda like a beauty mark. Also I have a little bit of a gap between my 2 front teeth and my voice gets kinda shaky and cracky sometimes. I let those things hold me back from gettin girls, but if I ever get those worked out than girls better beware.

Iight, don't let me be the only one come on and post yours too.
yah sound like a bi-tch! Grow the fu-ck up and stop acting like a girl. You are insecure about a mark above your eye? are you serious? LMAO the path to manhood for you will be a very long one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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