"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dadmonson

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Post what u are insecure about yourself. It could be anything that u feel self conciense about. To get us on the rite track I'll start off.
I have this darkened indented chicken pox mark right in on the corner of my right eye bone(Iguesss thats what u callit, kinda like a beauty mark. Also I have a little bit of a gap between my 2 front teeth and my voice gets kinda shaky and cracky sometimes. I let those things hold me back from gettin girls, but if I ever get those worked out than girls better beware.

Iight, don't let me be the only one come on and post yours too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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And the purpose of this is???? :confused:
 

backbreaker

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i have a pretty big head, and although not small, I don't have the biggest **** in the world
 

tmpgstx

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Actually, some women find the gap between the two front teeth sexy. I've been called the terminator because of mine.

I also read somewhere that it can indicate a higher level of testosterone in men.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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h2o

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
And the purpose of this is???? :confused:
how about none? that's back when i first found this site. you've been here since dec. 2004 and you still let things like a gap between your teeth hold you back...that's what are called limiting-beliefs

my nose is visibly still broken...so ****ing what, it doesn't stop me, and i'm not insecure about it. and it doesn't hold me back even .0000000001%

Originally posted by tmpgstx

No rules are necessary. Rules are only for people with major insecurities.
dadmonson, get in the game dude.
 

thederekeffect1

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Originally posted by h2o
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how about none? that's back when i first found this site. you've been here since dec. 2004 and you still let things like a gap between your teeth hold you back...that's what are called limiting-beliefs

my nose is visibly still broken...so ****ing what, it doesn't stop me, and i'm not insecure about it. and it doesn't hold me back even .0000000001%



dadmonson, get in the game dude.
Cry some more. Maybe you'll get your way.
 

Brian20o2

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I dont really have any. Just things I think would make me feel better eg. Money. Yes, I know you dont need money or a car or this and that... But hey, Im Trying to get better. Although I'm not going as fast as I wish, I am seeing significant changes for the better in me.
 

FRëSHURE

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Originally posted by thederekeffect1
Cry some more. Maybe you'll get your way.
He isn't crying.

He's telling others to beleive in themselves.

I've got crowded teeth, one of mine is pushed behind 2 others, which creates a BIG gap which has a tooth behind it.

I've got fair skin with freckles.

I've got pimples.

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These are not insecurities.
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I am out sarging and getting girls every week.

At one point in time they were insecurities. I am now well over them.
 

00Kevin

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Originally posted by dadmonson
Post what u are insecure about yourself. It could be anything that u feel self conciense about. To get us on the rite track I'll start off.
I have this darkened indented chicken pox mark right in on the corner of my right eye bone(Iguesss thats what u callit, kinda like a beauty mark. Also I have a little bit of a gap between my 2 front teeth and my voice gets kinda shaky and cracky sometimes. I let those things hold me back from gettin girls, but if I ever get those worked out than girls better beware.

Iight, don't let me be the only one come on and post yours too.
yah sound like a bi-tch! Grow the fu-ck up and stop acting like a girl. You are insecure about a mark above your eye? are you serious? LMAO the path to manhood for you will be a very long one.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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