"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Vice

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I love making money. After going through one of Eben Pagan's programs, I realized that to make money, you need to provide VALUE in people's lives; hence why scams don't often work. Value can be a fruit, a piece of information, anything that solves someone's needs. So I realized that it's not so much the money I like, it's the knowing that I can provide value to other people.

And for me, money isn't a means to get women, thanks to this site. It's something that will provide me with the TIME to become the best version of myself. It's something that I can use to make my life better. It's also something that I know I can create (through providing value) if I lost everything.

My goal? Well, here's my short term goal: buy rental real estate/mortgage notes with enough cash flow for me to be able to pay for my living expenses passively, so I can focus on learning and possibly even travelling.

List your own aspirations; sometimes hearing someone else's ambitions can jump start your own, or give you new ideas. Kind of like after reading The 4 Hour Workweek.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Upside

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My goals? Hmmm.

Find a sugar momma. Promptly divorce her. Take half her $hit.

It's what the cool kids do these days.
 

PRMoon

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I can't even describe how wild of a ride I've had while both completing college and working in las vegas. I've always had a good work ethic and persuasive personality. I've worked in sales and marketing in some form or another since graduation and it's been a wild ride so far.

My goal is what it always has been, work to learn. That's really the only thing I've done since I left college. Money, job stability, girls, houses, parties. All that stuff comes very easily so long as work hard and refuse to quit learning. Refining and bettering myself indefinitely is my only goal, the rest are just details.
 
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