"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Vice

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I love making money. After going through one of Eben Pagan's programs, I realized that to make money, you need to provide VALUE in people's lives; hence why scams don't often work. Value can be a fruit, a piece of information, anything that solves someone's needs. So I realized that it's not so much the money I like, it's the knowing that I can provide value to other people.

And for me, money isn't a means to get women, thanks to this site. It's something that will provide me with the TIME to become the best version of myself. It's something that I can use to make my life better. It's also something that I know I can create (through providing value) if I lost everything.

My goal? Well, here's my short term goal: buy rental real estate/mortgage notes with enough cash flow for me to be able to pay for my living expenses passively, so I can focus on learning and possibly even travelling.

List your own aspirations; sometimes hearing someone else's ambitions can jump start your own, or give you new ideas. Kind of like after reading The 4 Hour Workweek.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Upside

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My goals? Hmmm.

Find a sugar momma. Promptly divorce her. Take half her $hit.

It's what the cool kids do these days.
 

PRMoon

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I can't even describe how wild of a ride I've had while both completing college and working in las vegas. I've always had a good work ethic and persuasive personality. I've worked in sales and marketing in some form or another since graduation and it's been a wild ride so far.

My goal is what it always has been, work to learn. That's really the only thing I've done since I left college. Money, job stability, girls, houses, parties. All that stuff comes very easily so long as work hard and refuse to quit learning. Refining and bettering myself indefinitely is my only goal, the rest are just details.
 
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