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your 5th approach was good .this thread is good cant wait to hear some more.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ok . . .Lexie said:This is a great thread! Honestly, I find it attractive that you're even willing to try some of these, so I'm not surprised they're working for you. Confidence is sexy.
Right onthissean said:edit: I want to try to do the tic tac toe. I'll see if i can give it a shot tomorrow ;P
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Going to take a final now, if I get some downtime, I'll try this one out. Until then..Microfiltered said:Try this:
You: Hey can I ask you a quick question?
Her: probably surprised and say sure
You: If I were to ask your current boyfriend what kind of lover you are, what would he say?
-Anyways, keep it up man. I like reading this thread (I get kind of bored at work).
:crackup:Randallpink83 said:magnet7
have fun sitting on your ass living a mediocre life probably not getting laid a quarter of the times Incog will be soon enough. :flowers:
Why not this semester? Unless you mean this semester is your last. Make sure to keep us posted on what goes on!CORVETTE06 said:you are THE MAN.
i am printing out all of your experiments and I am going to try them all my last semester in college.
Sounds interesting. Unfortunately, I am done with finals and classes for about a month. I won't let you guys down though.. I'll try as many ideas as possible, it just won't be in a university setting for a while. So, the only limit will be that I can't try classroom-specific ideas/approaches.SlowlyButShirley said:Kind of a take on the tic tac toe idea. In a really boring/quiet lecture... or maybe sit near the front so you can't actively talk...
For the first part of class take notes... then once things get boring write on a piece of paper "DID YOU KNOW..." with an arrow indicating there is writing on the back... with no eye contact pass it to the girl... when she turns it over she finds the most stupid/random fact... "Elephants are the only animals that can't jump!" maybe with a picture of an elephant trying to jump... i dunno... be creative... maybe tell her "facts" about you boring professor "Professor Bill has 23 cats... all of them named Clarence"... whatever... Every once in a while enlighten her with a fact...
To answer your question, I am not currently nailing any of the "experiment" chicks mentioned in this thread, but I'm spinning 3 of them and it's imminent. Keep in mind magnet that this isn't my entire approach life. I'm nailing 3 chicks consistently on the side. I do however hope to add to that with the results of this thread - and it's looking good.magnet7 said:the "approaches" might be working but has he laid any of the chicks he's approached?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When you call her, ask for "finish studying loser", lol.Incog said:I didn't call her tonight, so I still don't know her name. She's saved in my phone as "Library HB 9".. Haha. I've been pretty busy, but I'll probably ring her up tomorrow. Keep closing, troops!
Wit will get you places. Being able to play situations by ear with confidence and still be witty is not only impressive, but chicks eat it up. That's a good breakdown of your options, I didn't really think of it like that, but yeah, any result can provide you an opportunity to close. However, I usually don't lose to girls in tic-tac-toe :rock:DismantleRepair said:I loved the tic-tac-toe one! It's also quite flexible depending on the result - if she loses, you can say she has to give you her number. If she wins, you can say that her prize is that she gets to have lunch with you. If it's a draw, you could say something like "Obviously, we must be made for each other... write your number: ________"
LOL! :crackup: I didn't think of that.. Too late though. Going to her house Monday.iqqi said:When you call her, ask for "finish studying loser", lol.
I don't know if anyone cares, but to update, I went out with this chick twice. Monday I went to her house and we watched a movie, ended up making out until I encountered some last minute resistance. Not a problem though.. last night she came over to "hang out," and as soon as she walked in I shut the door, told her to shutup, and we started making out. We ended up on the couch and I started undressing her. No resistanceIncog said:She wasn't a very good tic-tac-toe player. I finished her off (Hopefully it won't be the last time I do that) and under the game board, I drew "You lose.. You owe me your number: _________"
She looked at me and we exchanged grinning smiles, and I was given the paper back with her number on it. "Name?" I wrote next and passed it. I got it back and it said "Finish studying loser." At that point, I smiled at her, clutched the paper, got up and left.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.