I understand. However you should really do that thing from the 40year old virgin. Only ask questions and never make statements. That would be hilarious.Incog said:That's further than I'm willing to go. That's a little too far if you ask me.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I understand. However you should really do that thing from the 40year old virgin. Only ask questions and never make statements. That would be hilarious.Incog said:That's further than I'm willing to go. That's a little too far if you ask me.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm trying to test new, smooth approach ideas.. not look like a retarded moron.Alittude said:This one is better for the party/club type scene.
Go up to a random girl and ask
you- what's your name?
Her- name
you- Don't you know my name
her- ?
you- *lick her face and shout* I'm Rick James *****!
This is more as a joke but does display some extreme elements of C+F haha but watch out if she has a bf there watching.
HAHAHA I'd so pay to see that :crackup: :crackup:Alittude said:This one is better for the party/club type scene.
Go up to a random girl and ask
you- what's your name?
Her- name
you- Don't you know my name
her- ?
you- *lick her face and shout* I'm Rick James *****!
This is more as a joke but does display some extreme elements of C+F haha but watch out if she has a bf there watching.
You seriously think a random girl is going to give you directions to her house? Can I get some genuine approach ideas? This thread was supposed to be for you guys to get reassurance in your approach ideas and see if they work or not before you try them, but it's turning into "suggest a ridiculous stunt." No offense intended, but what's happening to the community? :trouble:SickAgain said:Okay here's a pretty simple one. Go up to a girl and ask her directions (preferably to her house) and once you're done getting directions say something like okay and sit down next to them or something. They'll be like what the fvck, and you say something along the lines of oh I just wanted to talk to you.
Might give this a shot. Not as an appeal to sympathy, but hopefully as a way of coverty communicating unconditional confidence.L777 said:etc. You have to be serious though, she must think that you're genuinely like this. Try and get the # like this....I deffo think it can be done.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I like this one, with some improvements. Most girls don't know what Mystery Method, or even kino is. Maybe like:LJC said:I have what I like to call an "above the game" approach, but I haven't really tested it out thouroughly yet. It's very simple and intended to be used on HB 8+ type women in natural pick up places, where women tend to have thier guard up pretty high, like a night club or whatever. I just don't hit those places as much lately.
Basically, it is what it sounds like. You walk up to a "hottie" and start talking like you're in mid-conversation with her (Without interupting rudely), saying something along the lines of:
"There are about 10 guys right now standing around thinking about how they're going to open you. Maybe a little "kino" with some ****y and funny, possibly throw in a little mystery method, or maybe drop a cheesy "did it hurt when you fell from heaven" line or something. So I figured while these guys are waiting to pounce with thier perfect opener, I would just walk up and say Hi, my name is Incog."
Smile, stick out your hand and let it fly.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Love it. This is coming Monday, since I don't have classes tomorrow (Friday). Expect it!SamePendo said:How about:
"Excuse me . . . If you were to pay to have sex with me, how much would you pay?"
Do it seriously. As a pickup, not as a teen who wants to get slapped so that he gets labeled as ballsy by his friends.
I tend to stay away from approaches that involve talking too long to start the conversation. I have found, in my experience, they aren't as effective. I try to keep it to under 2 sentences. I like to give them a chance to say something, and with approaches with scripted (even loosely) sentences, that doesn't give them the opportunity until you're completely finished. Just my 2 cents.Supremo said:I like this one, with some improvements. Most girls don't know what Mystery Method, or even kino is. Maybe like:
"Hey so right now, there are about 10 guys standing around thinking about something funny or witty to say when they come and talk to you. Some might be indirect about it, some might get right to it. The point is, while they're all thinking about it, I figured I might as well come up and introduce myself. I'm Supremo, how's your night been?"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.