I understand. However you should really do that thing from the 40year old virgin. Only ask questions and never make statements. That would be hilarious.Incog said:That's further than I'm willing to go. That's a little too far if you ask me.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I understand. However you should really do that thing from the 40year old virgin. Only ask questions and never make statements. That would be hilarious.Incog said:That's further than I'm willing to go. That's a little too far if you ask me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm trying to test new, smooth approach ideas.. not look like a retarded moron.Alittude said:This one is better for the party/club type scene.
Go up to a random girl and ask
you- what's your name?
Her- name
you- Don't you know my name
her- ?
you- *lick her face and shout* I'm Rick James *****!
This is more as a joke but does display some extreme elements of C+F haha but watch out if she has a bf there watching.
HAHAHA I'd so pay to see that :crackup: :crackup:Alittude said:This one is better for the party/club type scene.
Go up to a random girl and ask
you- what's your name?
Her- name
you- Don't you know my name
her- ?
you- *lick her face and shout* I'm Rick James *****!
This is more as a joke but does display some extreme elements of C+F haha but watch out if she has a bf there watching.
You seriously think a random girl is going to give you directions to her house? Can I get some genuine approach ideas? This thread was supposed to be for you guys to get reassurance in your approach ideas and see if they work or not before you try them, but it's turning into "suggest a ridiculous stunt." No offense intended, but what's happening to the community? :trouble:SickAgain said:Okay here's a pretty simple one. Go up to a girl and ask her directions (preferably to her house) and once you're done getting directions say something like okay and sit down next to them or something. They'll be like what the fvck, and you say something along the lines of oh I just wanted to talk to you.
Might give this a shot. Not as an appeal to sympathy, but hopefully as a way of coverty communicating unconditional confidence.L777 said:etc. You have to be serious though, she must think that you're genuinely like this. Try and get the # like this....I deffo think it can be done.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I like this one, with some improvements. Most girls don't know what Mystery Method, or even kino is. Maybe like:LJC said:I have what I like to call an "above the game" approach, but I haven't really tested it out thouroughly yet. It's very simple and intended to be used on HB 8+ type women in natural pick up places, where women tend to have thier guard up pretty high, like a night club or whatever. I just don't hit those places as much lately.
Basically, it is what it sounds like. You walk up to a "hottie" and start talking like you're in mid-conversation with her (Without interupting rudely), saying something along the lines of:
"There are about 10 guys right now standing around thinking about how they're going to open you. Maybe a little "kino" with some ****y and funny, possibly throw in a little mystery method, or maybe drop a cheesy "did it hurt when you fell from heaven" line or something. So I figured while these guys are waiting to pounce with thier perfect opener, I would just walk up and say Hi, my name is Incog."
Smile, stick out your hand and let it fly.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Love it. This is coming Monday, since I don't have classes tomorrow (Friday). Expect it!SamePendo said:How about:
"Excuse me . . . If you were to pay to have sex with me, how much would you pay?"
Do it seriously. As a pickup, not as a teen who wants to get slapped so that he gets labeled as ballsy by his friends.
I tend to stay away from approaches that involve talking too long to start the conversation. I have found, in my experience, they aren't as effective. I try to keep it to under 2 sentences. I like to give them a chance to say something, and with approaches with scripted (even loosely) sentences, that doesn't give them the opportunity until you're completely finished. Just my 2 cents.Supremo said:I like this one, with some improvements. Most girls don't know what Mystery Method, or even kino is. Maybe like:
"Hey so right now, there are about 10 guys standing around thinking about something funny or witty to say when they come and talk to you. Some might be indirect about it, some might get right to it. The point is, while they're all thinking about it, I figured I might as well come up and introduce myself. I'm Supremo, how's your night been?"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.