post your best approach

[DJ Alejandro]

im kinda running out of approaches so i thought we should just help each other out.

my best one (successful) recently was when i saw a girl alone in the corridor.

i just came over and said in a sincere way.

'ei! i like your smile. what else can you offer me?'

im still learning. help me!!!

 

[MVPlaya]

Alejandro, if lines are your thing then you are looking for PU lines and you never run out of those because you can use the same one until the end of time. Problem with PU lines is they seems unnatural and rehearsed.

When I approach a chick I use something contextual... ex. couple weeks ago I saw a hot chick selling books at a fundraiser. My first sentence was asking her if she read the book. From there I just remarked on the organization she was with and then introduced myself... signalling that I'm not just there to talk about the book. Another time I was at the cafeteria and I saw this cute chick on my right and I said "Man, its taking them ages." Its no special line... but its a simple comfortable opener and the girl can reply and signal whether she's interested in a convo. If lines are you're thing, stick with em, but PU lines tend to work only if you're goodlooking or the girl has low standards.

 

[icallug]

............Hi.

 

[RandomGuy22]

haha this one time at the bowling alley me and my friends were all bowling, and next to us were these two hot chicks (maybe like.. 8 or 9) bowling by themselves next to us. WEll they were competing with eachotehr and at the end before they were goin to leave i said "hey yall are leaving so early" and they said "yeah haha" and i said "well why don't you guys play one more game, whoever wins can give me their phone number, and whoever loses gets mine" THey laughed and said they had to go b/c their ride would be there soon, and walked out together.

I wanted soo bad to go ask them for hteir numbers seriously but i was an AFC back then (like 5 months ago) . If i had it to do over again i'd have gotten at least one number for sure

 

[THA REALNESS]

^^^^^^^^^^^^. Sometimes you gotta press the issue you know what i'm saying. I'm not saying follow them around just try to get a definitive reply.Remeber not to hesitate that long next time.


I agree with Mvplaya ,an approach is differnt than a PU line witch is sometime that should have been left for dead in the seventies.


Your whole opening line will usually be dumb questions like asking what time it is and asking for directions ...yes it sounds stupid or a greeting or a general statement just make sure to make eye contact ,proper body language and be assertive .


That's an easy part of an approach the hard part is transitioning a conversation from a cold approach into a PU.

 

[Evil-Rom]

"Is you dad a Terrorist? Coz you're DA BOMB!"

 

[whoa]

... so you're a girl?

is your dad a mechanic, cause youre body's fine tuned!

is that a keg on your back, cause i'd sure like to tap that arse.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

yeah. thanks to all who responded.

anywayz, my problem is this. i duno what to do when for example, this hot chick walks right past me. this is a college setup by the way. i cant just 'chase' her when im behind her and then introduce myself. that would probably be awkward. what are your thoughts on this?

and lets take it that if she was still facing me, do i just stop in front of her and say hi? man! i just have problems with these approaches.

any ideas or lines u guys use when ur in school? like in the lobby?
and, my school happens to be really populated for its quite small size. the lobby is where people usually hang-out. is it really a good idea for people to see you approach and if by chance get blown off?

thanks guys. you really all are a big help.