"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Post World with AI: The Future of Relationships and Dating

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It seems that the future may not be very bright for women as they may end up being lonely. Throughout history, women have been seen as the gatekeepers to sex, but this is now changing. Many books and films have highlighted this imbalance over the years. With the arrival of dating websites and "boss women", alternatives to traditional dating have emerged, such as OnlyFans.

According to recent studies, 80% of women are only interested in 20% of men, which has led many men to pay for fake partners on the internet. Now, we are seeing the rise of AI equivalents of OnlyFans, featuring fake beautiful women who are willing to do anything for their "web friends". So far, AI boyfriend and girlfriend experiences are only available online, but it's only a matter of time before they become physical.

It's clear that the top 20% of men and women will continue to thrive and find partners. The few traditional men and women will likely marry and have families. However, a significant portion of the "undesirable" 80% of men will likely remain single and turn to AI technology for companionship. This means that the 80% of remaining women will have to settle for "low-grade" men, and not all of them will succeed. Sadly, many women will end up being lonely and childless.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is going to be an interesting dystopian development to watch play out.

What happens to porn when AI can generate it better and for cheaper? When AI gets to the point where you can't tell a deep fake scene from real human actors then watch out. It won't be Blade Runner 2049 type of virtual reality I doubt but it will smash apart industries and reconstitute them into something different.

What happens to OF, Tik Tok etc when people can generate it via AI and cut out the human factor and their profit? AI never sleeps and they can data mine your behavior to customize it and the AIs reactions to you specifically.

Legislation always lags technology. What is illegal when it is completely computer-generated? The levels of degeneracy will get even worse.

None of this will be good for society and it's foolish to think that this will improve the dating market for your average man. But it will be interesting to sit back with popcorn and witness just how much worse things are going to get based on such tech.

Game and self-improvement will become even more important moving forward.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can totally see the porn and dating industry going all-in on robotics and android dolls, folks out there are already making their own waifus using character.ai or replika.
I can see a rub-n-tug device that is placed on a man's manhood, and the AI chick rubs him out.
 

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I think this must be This is definitely a joke meme - "Journal of Astrological Big Data Ecology" :rolleyes: (also look at the notations) - or perhaps, fittingly, a product of a ChatBot to generate a fake study like this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is going to be an interesting dystopian development to watch play out.

What happens to porn when AI can generate it better and for cheaper? When AI gets to the point where you can't tell a deep fake scene from real human actors then watch out. It won't be Blade Runner 2049 type of virtual reality I doubt but it will smash apart industries and reconstitute them into something different.

What happens to OF, Tik Tok etc when people can generate it via AI and cut out the human factor and their profit? AI never sleeps and they can data mine your behavior to customize it and the AIs reactions to you specifically.

Legislation always lags technology. What is illegal when it is completely computer-generated? The levels of degeneracy will get even worse.

None of this will be good for society and it's foolish to think that this will improve the dating market for your average man. But it will be interesting to sit back with popcorn and witness just how much worse things are going to get based on such tech.

Game and self-improvement will become even more important moving forward.
This is already happening in 2023 call it Version 1.0
^^Girl made 70K in one week using her "AI clone" this is in 2023 imagine what the tech will be 10 years from now or 20 years from now. Now you will have men pretending to be OF models (which is also happening now a little bit in 2023 but mostly men are overseeing real women's account as "managers" think Andrew Tate) making millions a year and people won't know it's not a real woman.

I do agree AI and AI robots are gonna be worse for men it will just promote degeneracy at a higher level also loneliness will be rampant as people will spend more time socializing with their AI/VR/Metaverse platforms than they will with actual human beings, some people may never or rarely go outside

This will be very bad for society and unfortunately, most people will embrace it without a 2nd thought

That's what scares the shiit out of me
Alot more men are lonely and pathetic than women. When guys have to turn to AI to talk to 'someone' we are hitting peak loser.
There are a lot of men who get overlooked by women and most men just don't want to put the effort into dating today. I understand it's hard but you adapt or you die. It's a historical fact that only 30% of men procreate in human history!

Definitely more Incels are going to live their own AR/VR world with their bot companion.
This is already happening but in the future, it will be more average guys as well (hopefully it won't be any man but let's be real)
AR/VR tech the next 5-10 years is gonna scale to a level people won't believe, it's going to cause massive addiction and there will be a time in the future when people would rather live in the virtual world than the real one(think the movie Ready Player One)

scary shyt, people think this dystopian vision is just talk but we are closer than people think. Pandora's box has been opened. It may not all happen in one night but it's happening. Technology is going to scale the next 5-30 years unlike anything we have seen before in human history

 

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I think it won't be impossible to combine a RealDoll with AI and robotics to make walking talking sex dolls...
I don't think that left of tech will be required.

AI driven interface, 3D imaging etc, and a remote controlled masturbation device/massage chair kind of thing.

That tech pretty much exists it's really only a matter of scale and cost.

I doubt it would be possible to scale up production enough to make it feasible to have walking talking sex dolls for the masses.

Maybe for rich folks, but not for regular incel type dudes.
 
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