Black_Italian
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
wow my taste in women is drastically different than yours.Originally posted by Black_Italian
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
2 of them were taken the same night i took the girl in green out clubbing with me because my friend wanted to be set up (he never got anythign off her) thats when i met the black chik. She realy is hot thats just a terrible pic. The other 2 i just happend to be wearning the same shirt. None of them were ex GFs learn to read. Only 2 sets of 2 of the pics i was wearing the same shirt so yeh. An ok i do admit the English tourist wasn't realy hot nor was the sweedish one but they both had this energy about them that drew me in.Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
All the chicks are hot, but seems like the ones where you were pictured with them were taken on the same night, you wearing the same t-shirt, etc. etc.
You saying that all of your ex gf's, FB's, tourists you showed a good time to, etc. etc. all gathered at one place on the same night, to celebrate you, Black Italian?
Hahahaha even with pics i get called a liar. Grow up you child and i got 100s of pics of the webcam girl and logged conversations to go allong with them. I said that i thought you were jelous last week because you kept attacking me and making entire posts flamming me now im sure of it.Originally posted by Casino
oddly enough this poser is only in the pics with the most busted chicks. the rest look like they were hijacked from myspace.
that and you look like a young osama bin laden with a flacid penis for a nose.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wow...That's got to be like...the smartest post I've ever read...Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Good advice from a "KBJ" is good advice.
Good advice from a "true DJ" is good advice.
Bad advice from a "KBJ" is bad advice.
Bad advice from a "true DJ" is bad advice.
Both are capable of giving good and bad advice. There is no such thing as infallibility regardless of whethere you're a "true DJ" or not.
Stop these infantile "my pen1s is bigger than your pen1s"/"let me post a picture of all "my girls" arguments and grow the fvck up.
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-peace
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
As the great gunwitch says, "All the girls that I've been with are perfect 10s to me."Hell yea black italian. I've read some of your posts and to be honest...I thought you were just shlting out of your mouth, but I'm glad you posted pics. I can tell you're in the game.
As for the girls that aren't hot. Yea, I've had a couple of those too. I don't really care. At the time I found them attractive, and I don't have any regrets about any of them.
Sarge on.