Black_Italian
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- May 9, 2004
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wow my taste in women is drastically different than yours.Originally posted by Black_Italian
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
2 of them were taken the same night i took the girl in green out clubbing with me because my friend wanted to be set up (he never got anythign off her) thats when i met the black chik. She realy is hot thats just a terrible pic. The other 2 i just happend to be wearning the same shirt. None of them were ex GFs learn to read. Only 2 sets of 2 of the pics i was wearing the same shirt so yeh. An ok i do admit the English tourist wasn't realy hot nor was the sweedish one but they both had this energy about them that drew me in.Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
All the chicks are hot, but seems like the ones where you were pictured with them were taken on the same night, you wearing the same t-shirt, etc. etc.
You saying that all of your ex gf's, FB's, tourists you showed a good time to, etc. etc. all gathered at one place on the same night, to celebrate you, Black Italian?
Hahahaha even with pics i get called a liar. Grow up you child and i got 100s of pics of the webcam girl and logged conversations to go allong with them. I said that i thought you were jelous last week because you kept attacking me and making entire posts flamming me now im sure of it.Originally posted by Casino
oddly enough this poser is only in the pics with the most busted chicks. the rest look like they were hijacked from myspace.
that and you look like a young osama bin laden with a flacid penis for a nose.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wow...That's got to be like...the smartest post I've ever read...Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Good advice from a "KBJ" is good advice.
Good advice from a "true DJ" is good advice.
Bad advice from a "KBJ" is bad advice.
Bad advice from a "true DJ" is bad advice.
Both are capable of giving good and bad advice. There is no such thing as infallibility regardless of whethere you're a "true DJ" or not.
Stop these infantile "my pen1s is bigger than your pen1s"/"let me post a picture of all "my girls" arguments and grow the fvck up.
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-peace
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
As the great gunwitch says, "All the girls that I've been with are perfect 10s to me."Hell yea black italian. I've read some of your posts and to be honest...I thought you were just shlting out of your mouth, but I'm glad you posted pics. I can tell you're in the game.
As for the girls that aren't hot. Yea, I've had a couple of those too. I don't really care. At the time I found them attractive, and I don't have any regrets about any of them.
Sarge on.