"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Post the openers you've received from women.

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I like the openers that say "hey" when you look at their profiles they say "I won't respond to "hey".
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pretty much all the online openers I've received over the years have been lame, "Hey, what's up?" sort of lines.

But I remember back on my 25th birthday, I was single and sitting reading in some coffee shop like the loser I was, and some chick came up and said, "Are you from New Jersey?" I said, "No, why?" and she said, "Oh, you remind me of someone I used to know there."

Realizing quickly that this was an opener, I said, "Oh, that's interesting, care to have a seat?" and she accepted, sat down, and we dated for a month or so. I ended up dumping her because I wasn't that into her. (Probably why more women don't initiate with guys.)

So yeah that was almost 15 years ago and I totally remember it. Just goes to show how often I've been "picked up" by a girl in public. I can count on one hand the number of times in my life women have initiated conversations in a clear attempt to "open" me. I have no idea whether this is the norm or whether hotter guys get a ton of unsolicited come-ons.
 
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Just got this one today...

"Oh baby, I'm going to rock your world. On the second date of course"

Lmao!!
 
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