Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lol Myspace anglesMy Name is Nobody said:Nobody wants to see your ugly ass... post a pic of your girl.
Unless that WAS your girl.. in which case you need another site.
Here's a pic of a girl I have a date with tomorrow...
http://img245.imageshack.us/img245/5458/1111ew1.jpg
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
spax said:lol Myspace angles
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
haha yea i commented on that earlier tonightThatfeel21 said:MNIN i love that song in your signature...poet laurette II when the beat switches..HOT ****
Yeah when i first heard the 2nd beat of that song i had it on repeat for days until i memorized the whole verse...tough as **** cuz he raps so scientifically and intelligently hahatsmith2334 said:haha yea i commented on that earlier tonight
Do what you gotta do, but couldn't she have at least sent you a color pic?My Name is Nobody said:I'll be finding out tomorrow and she says she works out and is athletic.
We have talked on the phone several times and I have a good feeling she is legit. That was just a cell phone pic, no way to show the whole body.