Post-club game

[gh15]

Hey guys,

New here. Been a fan of this site...truly opened my eyes as well as showed how big of an AFC I am hahaha. Well, learning day by day is what matters.

Long story short - was getting it on with a chick at a club - dancing and making out, repeat etc. Unfortunately wasn't able to take her home, as she was adamant about housing her friend from out-of-state who was with her that night. Got her #, and bounced.

Texted her the next day late afternoon - the standard "hey it's [ ], you get home safe last night?"

Surprised she replied, saying it was a really long night, capping it off with a smiley face (oh girls and their emoticons)

[waited couple hours before responding]

me: good to hear. we should hang out sometime, you live in the city right?
her: yep! sounds good to me.
me: great

I didn't go into logistics, I wanted to leave her hanging for a while. Reasons for this is a) I want to figure out what we can do b) I need to get some work done before thinking about step a). Plan is to hit her up in the next 1-2 days, ask her if she's free on the weekend, and see her.

Now....senior donjuans! What are some good date options? Would it be a bad idea if I suggest dinner, then taking her to a friend's birthday party (at a really nice club).

Never had experience in this scenario, and would love some advice

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Hey guys,

New here. Been a fan of this site...truly opened my eyes as well as showed how big of an AFC I am hahaha. Well, learning day by day is what matters.

Long story short - was getting it on with a chick at a club - dancing and making out, repeat etc. Unfortunately wasn't able to take her home, as she was adamant about housing her friend from out-of-state who was with her that night. Got her #, and bounced.

Texted her the next day late afternoon - the standard "hey it's [ ], you get home safe last night?"

Surprised she replied, saying it was a really long night, capping it off with a smiley face (oh girls and their emoticons)

[waited couple hours before responding]

me: good to hear. we should hang out sometime, you live in the city right?
her: yep! sounds good to me.
me: great

I didn't go into logistics, I wanted to leave her hanging for a while. Reasons for this is a) I want to figure out what we can do b) I need to get some work done before thinking about step a). Plan is to hit her up in the next 1-2 days, ask her if she's free on the weekend, and see her.

Now....senior donjuans! What are some good date options? Would it be a bad idea if I suggest dinner, then taking her to a friend's birthday party (at a really nice club).

Never had experience in this scenario, and would love some advice

Look up Hookah lounges in your area and take her there, or bowling, pool something fun.

You met the chick once. You don't really know her so wait on dinner. The friends party depending on the chick may be a little too much pressure making her think you're already introducing her to your friends. She might like the party but not bother with you after with thoughts of your friends meeting her and you moving too fast for a first "date".

 

[gh15]

hookah is a great idea (will have to see if she's down for it). was thinking bar night or maybe pool.

Seems like there's a divided support on this board for texting vs calling for setting up dates. I was thinking I call her to raise the interest level. Or would it not matter given she has decent IL (assuming she doesnt flake last minute)