"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jophil28

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DangNammit said:
I don't know if it's just loneliness or what, but she's been on my mind a lot in the past week...
Yes, not having any other applicants can do that to a guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jophil28 said:
Yes, not having any other applicants can do that to a guy.

For real. When you keep the females filed up your whole attitude and mental well-being goes on another level and there is an understanding. That understanding is that they come and go often. They are always shifting out of your life and you won't sweat if as long as others are filed up. I cannot express how so crucial it is to never stop approaching and getting with other chics. Your whole style becomes more attractive. It is not enough to get that badass one you want because you will lose your shine when you become too complacent and have no one else to fall back on.
 
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