"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DangNammit said:
I don't know if it's just loneliness or what, but she's been on my mind a lot in the past week...
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Yes, not having any other applicants can do that to a guy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jophil28 said:
Yes, not having any other applicants can do that to a guy.
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For real. When you keep the females filed up your whole attitude and mental well-being goes on another level and there is an understanding. That understanding is that they come and go often. They are always shifting out of your life and you won't sweat if as long as others are filed up. I cannot express how so crucial it is to never stop approaching and getting with other chics. Your whole style becomes more attractive. It is not enough to get that badass one you want because you will lose your shine when you become too complacent and have no one else to fall back on.
 
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