Post-Approach, Pre-Number

[SamMalone]

I'm pretty good at just walking up to someone and asking them how they are, but I have a hard time after the

"How was your day"

"Good. Your's?"

"Good"

Then I'm have trouble getting a topic to discuss. If she starts the converstation, then I'm fine, but sometimes it looks like she's waiting for me to say something else and I have no idea what to talk about. Giving her a compliment right out of the gate isn't my thing, so an enviormental thing would work best I imagine, but how do I get better at doing this? Specifically a girl at the gym that this happens frequently too and I STILL don't know her name...

 

[Gangster Of Love]

ok, let me get it out of the way, for the many responsed you'll get saying "Read the DJ Bible", haha.

You need to start throwing topics that interest women, and topics that serve as a bait, that chicks just can't resist commenting on.

Start with opinion openers, make sure the topic is interesting, tempting, controversial (please, not abortion/religion/politics), funny, and one that women seem to feel the need to strongly express their opinion on.

 

[Black_Italian]

Yeh i could iamgine walking up to a girl:

Me: Hey what do you think about abortions?

Say:

You: Girls always say they want a nice guy but they never realy do

this gets them talking for ages

or you could always bring up SEX girls love to talk about sex THEY LOVE IT. This also gives the added bonus of showing your confident and sexualy aware.

 

[SamMalone]

Aborotion lol.

Thanks I've read the main site and most of it just talks about first saying "Hi" which I can do fine, then says to just "go from there", and that's what I have trouble with.

 

[Black_Italian]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Say:

You: Girls always say they want a nice guy but they never realy do

this gets them talking for ages

or you could always bring up SEX girls love to talk about sex THEY LOVE IT. This also gives the added bonus of showing your confident and sexualy aware.

 

[SSben]

alright man this is easy

First to start a good conversation u gotta have
1 Eye contact
2 Open arms
3 Smile

U said how was your day
hey-fine
U-so are you from around here
her- yeah
u- its not everyday i notice somone wearing such great styles, i like the color contrast of your cloths, very exotic
her-hahaha
her- so u know alot about cloths
u- well i keep up to date in the latest fashions

fake it untill u make it