"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Post Annie's!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Docs, why do you fvcking care?
 
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Docs said:
My answer would not matter to you.
I guess the question you should be concerning yourself with is whether you care?
I am actually very interested in why you have been so interested in post counts.

Siunce you started on this site, you had you 500 post anniversary, and a 1000 post anniversary. Now this week you have begun to celebrate other peoples "annie's"

So I ask again, why do you care?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I didn't mention anything about a 1500 post annie for my did I? I guess it can't be all that.

And I mention it because there's no sense of community here, no one here knows anyone, and fewer yet ask what's up. So, I guess I wanted to bring attention to a specific thing, so possibly someone would answer with some recongition, and something can be gained from this.

Nothing is as trival as you may think, objective lies behind every action. Now, wouldn't it make sense to have a good attitude towards more things, instead of wallowing over something completely irrevelent to yourself?
 
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*BIG dumb smiles*

Thanks docs, I knew you would have a semi answer to my problem.

Yeah, I completely agree with you saying there is no community. People have been telling me to leave for a long time though. I am not part of this place I am told, just a regular troll.

I just wanted to accuse you of the same thing, I knew you had the frame I was looking for:)
 

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Stackthestyles said:
*BIG dumb smiles*

Thanks docs, I knew you would have a semi answer to my problem.

Yeah, I completely agree with you saying there is no community. People have been telling me to leave for a long time though. I am not part of this place I am told, just a regular troll.

I just wanted to accuse you of the same thing, I knew you had the frame I was looking for:)
I'm pretty good then, to answer a problem you never even presented to me, right on!! ^_^ :woo:

And everyone belongs as long as you have something useful to contribute for the greater of the community. :D
 
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