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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Post Annie's!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Docs, why do you fvcking care?
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My answer would not matter to you.Stackthestyles said:
I guess the question you should be concerning yourself with is whether you care?
Right on ^_^Warboss Alex said:
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I am actually very interested in why you have been so interested in post counts.Docs said:
Siunce you started on this site, you had you 500 post anniversary, and a 1000 post anniversary. Now this week you have begun to celebrate other peoples "annie's"
So I ask again, why do you care?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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I didn't mention anything about a 1500 post annie for my did I? I guess it can't be all that.
And I mention it because there's no sense of community here, no one here knows anyone, and fewer yet ask what's up. So, I guess I wanted to bring attention to a specific thing, so possibly someone would answer with some recongition, and something can be gained from this.
Nothing is as trival as you may think, objective lies behind every action. Now, wouldn't it make sense to have a good attitude towards more things, instead of wallowing over something completely irrevelent to yourself?
And I mention it because there's no sense of community here, no one here knows anyone, and fewer yet ask what's up. So, I guess I wanted to bring attention to a specific thing, so possibly someone would answer with some recongition, and something can be gained from this.
Nothing is as trival as you may think, objective lies behind every action. Now, wouldn't it make sense to have a good attitude towards more things, instead of wallowing over something completely irrevelent to yourself?
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*BIG dumb smiles*
Thanks docs, I knew you would have a semi answer to my problem.
Yeah, I completely agree with you saying there is no community. People have been telling me to leave for a long time though. I am not part of this place I am told, just a regular troll.
I just wanted to accuse you of the same thing, I knew you had the frame I was looking for
Thanks docs, I knew you would have a semi answer to my problem.
Yeah, I completely agree with you saying there is no community. People have been telling me to leave for a long time though. I am not part of this place I am told, just a regular troll.
I just wanted to accuse you of the same thing, I knew you had the frame I was looking for
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I'm pretty good then, to answer a problem you never even presented to me, right on!! ^_^ :woo:Stackthestyles said:*BIG dumb smiles*
Thanks docs, I knew you would have a semi answer to my problem.
Yeah, I completely agree with you saying there is no community. People have been telling me to leave for a long time though. I am not part of this place I am told, just a regular troll.
I just wanted to accuse you of the same thing, I knew you had the frame I was looking for
And everyone belongs as long as you have something useful to contribute for the greater of the community.